Today we’re talking about something we’ve never heard talked about openly… silent sex.
  
 Did you know that more than 50% of people regularly have sex where at least one partner is completely silent? This might not initially seem like a huge deal, but there are actually a number of drawbacks to having totally quiet sex.
  
 In today’s episode, we’re breaking down for you why you’re having silent sex, the benefits of making some noise in the bedroom, and some simple steps to help you get more comfortable with it! You’ll also learn the surprising truth about which gender in a male/female relationship is the quiet one…
  
 Links & Resources:
 Guide: Dirty Talk 101 (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/dt-101/)
 Guide:   Modern Man’s Guide (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/modern-mans-guide/)
  
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Episode 129: Do You Have Silent Sex? Here’s Why That’s A Problem

Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It’s the sex education you WISH you’d had!

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A few weeks ago we asked our community if they felt resentment in their relationship and only 29% said no!
Resentment doesn’t feel good for either partner, and it can lead to things like more stress, less sex, and lots of other serious consequences in your relationship.
We decided it was time to create an episode breaking down what resentment is, where it comes from, and how to overcome it in your relationship.
Links & Resources:
Guide: Mental Load Workbook
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Episode 154: How To Stop Feeling Resentment In Your Relationship

Imagine this… you’re crawling into bed at the end of the night, thinking, “Hmmm sex sounds nice.”
 We hate to break it to you, but you’re too late! You needed to have been planning for this much earlier in the day. You needed to be using our unique approach to foreplay.
 Most of us think of foreplay as the stuff we do for 30 seconds before we move on to intercourse, but it’s so much more than that. Today we’re telling you about the magic of all-day, non-sexual foreplay.
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 Course:  Art Of Initiation
 Challenge:  The Connection Challenge
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Episode 153: The Secret Foreplay Technique You Don’t Even Know About

You’ve had a fight over text message with your partner, right? Most of us have! Maybe you sent a text to your partner that was a little too snarky, or maybe you read too much into a message. Odds are your text fight did not end well…
  
 Today we’re breaking down a real text fight one of our followers sent in. It started off as a fight over facial hair, but like most fights do, evolved into something much deeper. We covered topics like body confidence, broken trust, and validation. We point out the things they did right, and the ways things went oh so wrong. You’ll get a fascinating sneak peek into another couple’s conflict, plus tons of communication tips along the way.
  
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 Our Instagram: @vanessandxander (https://www.instagram.com/vanessaandxander/)
  
 If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!
  
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Episode 152: Breaking Down A Text Fight

If you’re a Pillow Talks listener, you’re probably on board with the idea of talking about sex openly. But what do you do if your partner is a lot more hesitant?
  
 In this episode, we’re going over why your partner might be feeling resistant, and how you can encourage them to open up. You’ll learn our secret to intimacy-building conversation, plus tons of creative (and even sneaky) ways to get your partner to talk about sex.
  
 Links & Resources:
 Book:   Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life (https://sextalksbook.com/)
  
 If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!
  
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Episode 151: How To Get Your Partner To Open Up About Sex (Even If They’re Resistant)

We really went there…
  
 It’s time for another round of Smash or Pass! The series where we find the internet’s weirdest sex tips, try them out, and report back to you with all the details.
  
 We dug deep to find the craziest ideas for us to try, and what we found was well… interesting. We’re even taking you into our bedroom during one of the tips so you can hear our live reaction!
  
 The Countdown Method… using a glove… the Nose Dive method. Are any of these new tips Pillow Talks Approved? You’ll just have to tune in and find out!
  
 Links & Resources:
 Course:   Art Of Initiation (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/the-art-of-initiation/)
 Guide:   Ultimate Foreplay Guides (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/foreplay-guides-2022/)
 Guide:   Next Level Intercourse (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/next-level-intercourse/)
  
 If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!
  
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Episode 129: Do You Have Silent Sex? Here’s Why That’s A Problem

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