Pillow Talks

Does a lack of privacy get in the way of your sex life? You’re not alone. 62% of our audience say they wish they had more privacy, and 92% of them say they’d be having more and better sex if they had more privacy. If you don’t have privacy, you may find it difficult to get in the mood, relax in the moment, make any noise, or even allow yourself to have sex in the first place.

In this episode, you’ll get access to practical tips taken straight from one of our paid courses, Rediscovering Us!

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Rediscovering Us: Intimacy And Sex for Parents

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Did you know that only 24% of people said they’re happy with the level of vulnerability in their relationship?

We asked our community why they struggle to be vulnerable, and heard things like:

-I didn’t grow up being vulnerable, so I don’t know how to do it

-We’ve been together for so long without being vulnerable; it would feel weird to try to start now

-What’s the point of vulnerability?

Our hot take is that without vulnerability, you don’t have a real relationship. So in this episode, we’re breaking down your barriers and helping you and your partner get more vulnerable!

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Simple Daily Check-In

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!

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Your partner wants you to flirt with them more!

But the majority of us feel like we don’t know HOW to flirt. It feels awkward or cheesy... Or we don’t know what our partner will actually like.

Get your notebooks out because today we’re going to teach you how to flirt with your partner! We’ll cover why flirting is so important in long-term relationships, how to get over your resistance to it, and dozens of specific examples of how to flirt.

Pro-tip: this is a fantastic episode to listen to with your partner!

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Art Of Initiation

Dirty Talk 101

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!

Threesomes are one of the most common fantasies, but most of us feel completely clueless about how to actually make them happen! In today’s episode, we walk you through how to have your first one, and share some hot, hilarious, awkward, and horrible stories about other peoples’ threesomes.

If you’ve ever wanted to have a threesome or just want to hear about others’ experiences, you’re in for a treat!

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Courses & Guides

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!

Get ready for the highly anticipated third act to one of our most popular episodes yet - Is This Normal?

You’ll get answers to questions like: Is it normal that my husband isn’t instantly turned on when he sees me naked? Is it normal to never have masturbated? Is it normal to get the ick from my husband whom I truly love? And so much more!

Prepare to laugh, cringe, and nod your head in recognition as we address your questions head-on!

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Next Level Intercourse

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!

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Today we’re getting ULTRA personal, and answering all your questions about our recent experience in couples therapy.

Do we think therapy sometimes digs up stuff that wasn’t a problem? Do we ever hope our therapist takes our side? And of course, the big question that everyone wanted to know… WHY are we in couples therapy in the first place? (We got really vulnerable and emotional with this one…)

We hope these topics (and our sometimes controversial answers) start some conversations that you never knew you needed to have!

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Our Courses & Guides

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Are these four communication mistakes ruining your relationship?

In today’s episode we’re revealing the Four Horsemen. Researcher John Gottman discovered that these specific communication pitfalls could predict divorce with over 90% accuracy!

We’re breaking down what they are, how to know if you’re doing them, and what to do to have better communication going forward.

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Our Courses & Guides

Xander’s back in the hot seat answering all your burning questions about male behavior!

Why do guys mansplain? Why do they struggle to find things that are right in front of their faces? Why are men always initiating when we’re right in the middle of something like doing the dishes? Why can’t they ever be vulnerable? And what’s with the obsession over the volume of their cum??

Get ready for lots of laughter and some eye-opening insights.

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Episode 120: “Why Do Guys Do This?” Xander Explains Male Behavior

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When the spark dies off in a relationship, it’s really easy to blame it on libido.

But is libido actually the problem?

In this episode, we reveal the truth about sex drive and ask a big question, “does libido even matter?”

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Ultimate Foreplay Guides

Next Level Intercourse

Art of Initiation

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Welcome to our 2nd round of “Know Ya Boo” (bonus points if you get the Parks and Rec reference). Grab your partner, pull up a chair, pour your favorite cocktail or mocktail, and come on a double date with us!

You guys gave us 50 questions, and our job was to guess each other’s answers. The results had us in stitches from start to finish. Make sure you listen all the way through to get the scoop on which one of us comes out on top.

Afterwards, you can play your own version of Know Ya Boo with your partner. DM us with how it went, and if you beat our scores!

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