Having It A.L.L.

Do You Know Your Center? The Success Of Your Relationships Depends On It!


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This episode was inspired by a conversation I had with my father. Like many topics I cover in this podcast, my own life is the testing ground where I attempt to choose LOVE over FEAR, and share with you the things I've learned. 


Today I'm talking about the importance of knowing what your center is - the lens through which you see the world and relationship that shapes your values, thoughts and behaviors. 


There are many different centers you can have. You can be Spouse centered, Money centered, Family centered, Work centered, Possession centered, Pleasure centered, and more. 


Each of these centers has a consequence. The person who is Spouse centered, for example, feels secure when their spouse treats them well, and insecure when they don't. The person who is Money centered derives their sense of self worth from their net work. 


Each center carries with it a way of looking at and relating to the world. 


As you can see by now, these centers are incredibly important because they shape how we see the world.


Quick note: the centers I'm referring to come straight from Stephen Covey's book The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People. 


In this podcast episode I share with you a consequence of being Family centered, and how relationships hinge on not only knowing your loved ones center, but also understanding how those centers shape how they perceive the world and how they prefer to be treated. 


What you'll hear in this episode:

  • A explanation of what it means to be Family centered
  • The 5 Love Languages
  • The importance of knowing not only your center and your Love Language, but that of the people closest to you

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