Everyone’s out here doing what makes sense for them — and half the stress comes from making their choices a reflection of you. This episode is about learning to say, “Uhhhh, makes sense for dem. Do you, Mary,” and mean it. We talk about letting people live without turning everything into a mirror, making observations instead of judgments, and remembering that some choices are just between them, their naʻau, and Akua. This one’s for when you’re tired of policing everybody’s life and over-explaining your own.