Every day, throughout the day, things go differently than we expect or want them to go.

I believe for most of these differences, the more important issue is how we react to them rather than what actually happened.

Do we become the victim? 

Do we see opportunities?

 Do we feel gratitude?

Or do we feel disappointment or anger?

Do we blame?

We can master the art of blaming others and then we get caught in an undesirable pattern of behavior.  Where there's blame, there is no learning, no accountability, no open-mind inquiry, and no interest in understanding where accountability should lie.

What causes us to play the blame game? Listen for some reasons and a challenge to ditch playing the game.