If you are doing the following things, you are cheating:

• If my partner asked me about my chats, comments, and messages to others on social media, do I hide some messages?
• Do you sometimes like to chat or message ex’s online?
• Sometimes, instead of going to my partner, Do you share deep emotional or intimate information with others online?

Do the above statements apply to you? 

Spending time with another person outside of your relationship is time spent away from a partner, which is one of the elements that affects judgments of infidelity. 

The top ways Social Media is driving you apart.

1. Time spent on Social Media is time NOT spent with your partner. 
2. Couples spend time on social media, even when they are together.
3. Social Media is the perfect opportunity for you to compare your partner with others.
4. Social Media makes you irritable and annoyed. This is the first sign of addiction.
5. Social Media makes it easier to go beyond what is normally acceptable.
6. Using Social Media to deal with relationship problems instead of facing them head on and talk about them.