Doing It For The Kids

Doing It For The Kids

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Doing It For The Kids episodes

  • How to find focus in a fragmented day

    This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from Ross Wintle. Ross is a software developer, he says:

    “How do you cope with days where you have lots of 'context switches' and can't focus. Like my 'half day' which is:

    • Get wife + pre-schooler out the house
    • School run
    • Off to co-working
    • Collect pre-schooler
    • School run (with pre-schooler in tow)
    • Feed school-kid
    • Hand pre-schooler to grandma
    • Take school-kid to swim class
    • Home for tea
    • It does my head in, and though I have half a day of work in there, I rarely get anything done. The changes drain me so much. I find it exhausting too.

      Do you have days like that? Do you have tips for getting focus when your day is so fragmented? Do you just avoid planning in "deep work" for those days?”

      What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.

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      Frankie Tortora's website

      Steve Folland's website
      Steve's podcast - Being Freelance*

      Ross Wintle's website

      Doing It For The Kids website

      DIFTK Facebook Community
      DIFTK Instagram
      DIFTK Twitter

      21 min
    • When people seem to think your job is a "hobby"

      This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from Jo Breeze. Jo is a crowdfunding consultant and writer, she says:

      “My work makes a genuine contribution to paying the bills in our house. It’s not quite 50/50 but some months it’s pretty close. But when I tell people what I do, I sometimes find there’s an assumption that it’s a hobby that I’ve taken on to keep me busy (HAAA) around children. I feel especially awkward when people tell me about their wife or their friend who’s ‘self-employed like you’ when it turns out what they mean is sells things on eBay sometimes, or similar. How do I assert that actually my job is a ‘real’ job, without doing down the choices of other women?”

      What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.

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      Frankie Tortora's website

      Steve Folland's website
      Steve's podcast - Being Freelance*

      Jo Breeze's website

      Doing It For The Kids website

      DIFTK Facebook Community
      DIFTK Instagram
      DIFTK Twitter

      18 min
    • How to eat something other than biscuits

      This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from Holly Smith. Holly is a celebrant and coach, she says:

      "Food! I know I struggle to eat well during the week because if it's a toss-up between work and tidying up, and feeding myself something more than biscuits, then the latter never takes priority. How can I fit proper, nourishing meals into my life when I’m so pressed for time?”

      What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.

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      Frankie Tortora's website

      Steve Folland's website
      Steve's podcast - Being Freelance*

      Holly Smith's website

      Doing It For The Kids website

      DIFTK Facebook Community
      DIFTK Instagram
      DIFTK Twitter

      20 min
    • When your "friend" wants some free business advice and asks to meet in person

      This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from Nicola Washington. Nicola is a writer and social media manager, she says:

      "What do you do about the “friend” who wants some free advice and expects you to take a two hour round trip to meet somewhere “mutually convenient”? My preferred “Mate, people pay me for this shit” might not cut it.”

      What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.

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      Frankie Tortora's website

      Steve Folland's website
      Steve's podcast - Being Freelance*

      Nicola Washington's website

      Doing It For The Kids website

      DIFTK Facebook Community
      DIFTK Instagram
      DIFTK Twitter

      20 min
    • Emotional soup! How to keep things clear when work and life all happens under one roof

      This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from Janie Skuse. Janie runs a digital marketing business with her husband, she says:

      "Emotional soup! I work with my husband, both at home. He does full-time hours up in the bedroom/batcave, I look after our 3-year-old full-time and have 2 hours ‘off’ each day while she’s at nursery and evenings to work (ha!). If EVERYTHING happens under one roof, how do you keep things separate/clear?"

      What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.

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      Frankie Tortora's website

      Steve Folland's website
      Steve's podcast - Being Freelance*

      Janie Skuse's website

      Doing It For The Kids website

      DIFTK Facebook Community
      DIFTK Instagram
      DIFTK Twitter

      19 min
    • When you have kids around and need to take a client call

      Our very first episode! Wahooo!

      This week Frankie Tortora and Steve Folland have a chat in response to a question from Jessie Healy. Jessie is a digital marketing strategist, she says:

      "If you have a client call and your kid is awake, do you try to hide it, move the call, or just be honest about the crazy kid noises?”

      What would your advice be? Let us know your thoughts using #DIFTKpodcast on Twitter and Instagram, and join in the conversation via the DIFTK Community on Facebook.

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      Frankie Tortora's website

      Steve Folland's website
      Steve's podcast - Being Freelance*

      Jessie Healy's website

      Doing It For The Kids website

      DIFTK Facebook Community
      DIFTK Instagram
      DIFTK Twitter

      19 min

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