Marriage is a journey best taken with divine guidance, something we discovered firsthand over our two decades together. Celebrating our 20th anniversary this year prompted us to open up our wedding album and share the authentic, sometimes hilarious truth about our special day.

When we decided to get married, we didn't just follow our feelings. We individually sought God through prayer, receiving separate confirmations that we were meant for each other. This spiritual foundation became crucial as we navigated life together – a practice we strongly recommend for anyone considering marriage. God's tangible presence during our ceremony remains our most cherished wedding day memory, that divine stamp of approval setting the tone for our years together.

Our wedding journey had its amusing moments, particularly when we moved our date up from July to April, prompting immediate pregnancy assumptions from friends and family! With just 14 months from meeting to marriage, we understood their concerns, but we moved forward with confidence in God's direction. The entire celebration cost roughly $4,000, proving you don't need extravagant spending for meaningful beginnings. The night ended not with romantic fireworks but with us crashed out in our hotel room, still in wedding clothes, Burger King wrappers nearby – a perfectly imperfect start that makes us laugh to this day.

Perhaps our most unconventional choice was foregoing a honeymoon to purchase our first home. Closing just two weeks before the wedding, this decision gave us a place to build our family and proved to be an investment we've never regretted. Twenty years later, we can honestly say marriage has been a wonderful rollercoaster – challenging at times but ultimately fulfilling and joyful.

Whether you're newlyweds, celebrating decades together, or still searching for your person, we hope our story encourages you to seek divine guidance, embrace practicality alongside romance, and find humor in the unexpected moments. Ready to strengthen your relationship? Subscribe to hear more authentic conversations about doing life, marriage, and ministry together.

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Charles and Tesa Daniels share essential wisdom for singles on identifying and responding to relationship red flags that could signal future problems in marriage.

• Red flags are warning signs that demand attention and consideration before making a lifelong commitment
• Unaddressed anger and control issues often worsen after marriage, creating unhealthy power dynamics
• Disrespect and dismissiveness indicate fundamental problems that rarely improve without intervention
• Spiritual mismatches present significant challenges for believers seeking Christ-centered relationships 
• Dishonesty and inconsistency during dating predict similar behavior patterns in marriage
• God will reveal both positive and negative aspects of relationships if we're willing to pay attention
• Taking time to evaluate red flags can prevent rushing into a relationship that isn't God's best

Marriage can make life "heaven on earth or hell on earth," so carefully consider who you're committing to for a lifetime.

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Charles and Tesa Daniels share powerful insights on navigating the necessary adjustments couples must make to build a successful shared life in marriage. They draw from personal experiences to illuminate how the transition from independent to interdependent living requires intentional effort, patience, and communication.

• Letting go of the "me first" mentality to prioritize your spouse's needs
• Adapting personal habits and routines when living together
• Finding balance between different morning routines and lifestyle preferences
• Recognizing that men and women often approach consideration differently
• Adjusting communication styles to prevent emotional distance
• Learning to address issues promptly rather than letting them linger
• Keeping God at the center of your marriage in good times and bad
• Understanding that faith isn't just a backup plan for when problems arise
• Giving each other grace during the adjustment process
• Making these adjustments before serious problems develop

Be willing to make necessary adjustments in your marriage and let God be God in your life. If you want to keep up with everything going on, don't forget to like, comment, subscribe, and share this podcast.

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Charles and Tesa explore the concept that happiness is a personal choice rather than something your spouse or partner can provide for you. We delve into how finding joy in small moments can transform your relationship more than grand gestures or expensive experiences.

• Small moments matter more than elaborate dates or vacations
• Learning to play and laugh together instead of being petty during disagreements
• Don't wait for special occasions to connect meaningfully with your partner
• Laughter is a choice you must make every day, especially during difficult times
• You are responsible for your own happiness and emotional wellbeing
• Finding joy in ordinary activities like walks, shopping, or just being together
• The biblical principle that "the joy of the Lord is our strength" applies to marriage

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Charles and Tesa Daniels offer practical guidance on navigating disagreements in marriage without causing lasting damage to your relationship. They share personal experiences and biblical wisdom on how to fight fair while maintaining connection and respect.

• Stop trying to win arguments and focus instead on understanding your spouse
• Words can't be unsaid, so be careful with what you say during disagreements 
• Learn to recognize when emotions are running high and take a peaceful pause
• Consider timing and your spouse's headspace before bringing up difficult topics
• Prayer changes how you approach conflict by softening your heart first
• The goal isn't to be right but to preserve connection and unity in your marriage
• Learn to discern between what needs to be said and what should be withheld
• Fighting fair requires respecting your spouse as much as you would others in your life
• Recognize when the enemy might be trying to disrupt your unity through conflict

Remember that disagreements are normal in every relationship, but maintaining love and connection matters more than making your point or being right.

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Charles and Tesa share valuable insights about what they wish they'd known before getting married, offering a transparent look at the realities couples face and how to navigate them successfully.

• Love doesn't fix bad habits - it often magnifies them
• You can't read each other's minds - clear communication is essential 
• Arguments aren't about winning but understanding each other
• Marriage needs maintenance even when things are going well
• Friendship matters more than romance for long-term success
• Money will expose your different approaches and values
• You marry your spouse's family and their dynamics too
• Investing in learning about marriage is crucial for success
• Setting healthy boundaries with extended family is necessary

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Tesa and Charles share insights on navigating the complexities of spiritual growth within marriage. They explore the importance of understanding and supporting each other's spiritual journeys while managing expectations. The conversation emphasizes patience, love, and the potential for unity even when partners are on different spiritual paths.

• Understanding individual spiritual growth rates 
• The risks of comparing marriages to social media portrayals 
• The importance of small invitations in spiritual engagement 
• Breaking the idealized mold of couple spirituality 
• Navigating pushback and pressure in faith discussions 
• Trusting God's timing for your partner's growth 

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Exploring the significance of boundaries in marriage offers couples invaluable insights into protecting and enhancing their relationship. We delve into the purpose of boundaries and how they can serve as a safety net against misunderstandings and external influences.

• Understanding boundaries as protective limits in marriage 
• The importance of keeping others out of marital issues 
• Navigating communication with exes respectfully 
• Ensuring respectful communication as a vital boundary 
• Tailoring boundaries to fit individual relationship needs 

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Understanding gender roles in marriage is essential for a harmonious partnership. This episode examines biblical insights, practical communication strategies, and introduces a gender roles worksheet to help couples navigate their responsibilities effectively.

• Defining gender roles in marriage 
• The importance of premarital conversations 
• Biblical perspectives and their relevance today 
• Analyzing personal experiences and family influences 
• Balancing work and home life as a team 
• Continuous communication for ongoing understanding 
• Introducing gender roles worksheets for clarity

Gender Roles Worksheet----- https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xTED1chweAHwuJ3tx7RqEDV1Paf2IwZC/view?usp=drive_link

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Balancing marriage and ministry can feel like juggling two full-time jobs, each demanding your time and energy. What happens when these worlds collide, threatening the harmony in your relationship? On "Doing It with the Daniels," we unpack our personal journey of navigating these challenges, sharing the moments of tension and triumph that taught us the value of teamwork and communication. We promise you'll gain insights on how to ensure ministry responsibilities don't eclipse the needs of your marriage, and how to nurture your relationship even when life's pressures mount.

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