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  • Jesus Is King. Your Political Party Is Not. Stop Confusing the Two

    Christians and politics. It is one of the most tension-filled topics in the church today. How should followers of Jesus engage with elections, candidates, and political disagreements in a way that actually honors God? This teaching digs into what the Bible says about voting, civic responsibility, and how Christians are called to speak and act in a politically divided world.

    Key topics covered include why Christians should vote and what the real purpose of voting is from a Kingdom perspective, what your vote is and what it is not (including why a protest vote may not be the statement you think it is), how to find truth in a world full of political spin and media manipulation, what Scripture says about praying for leaders you disagree with, and how Ephesians 4 applies directly to political conversations online and in person.

    This is not a partisan message. It is a biblical one. Whether you lean left or right, this teaching challenges every believer to keep Jesus at the center, to vote with purpose, and to speak with grace. The church is called to be salt and light, and that calling does not stop at the ballot box.

    If you have ever struggled with how to engage politically as a Christian, felt frustrated by political anger in the church, or wondered whether your faith should influence how you vote, this is for you.

    Topics and keywords: Christians and politics, should Christians vote, Bible and voting, Christian civic responsibility, Kingdom principles and politics, how to vote as a Christian, political anger and the Bible, Ephesians 4 and politics, praying for leaders, salt and light, Christian faith and elections, Holy Spirit and truth, how to find truth in politics, Christian response to political division, Jesus and government, faith and voting, church and politics, biblical worldview on government.

    1 hr 6 min
  • There’s a Seed of the Gospel in Every Culture

    What does it actually look like to live out the gospel in your everyday life? This message explores the heart of relational evangelism and what it means to make yourself genuinely available to God each day. Whether you are a student, a professional, or someone simply trying to follow Jesus in the ordinary moments of life, these principles will challenge and encourage you to see your daily surroundings as a mission field.

    Topics covered include: how relational ministry reflects the heart of the gospel, why university campuses are one of the most strategic places for outreach today, how to find seeds of the gospel within any culture, and why availability matters more than geography when it comes to sharing your faith.

    Key themes and takeaways: relational evangelism, sharing your faith in everyday life, campus ministry, missional living, cultural awareness in ministry, the abundant life in John 10:10, Acts 2:17 and the promise of the Holy Spirit, how to pray for divine appointments, and what it means to go after the one.

    This message is for anyone who wants to grow in their faith, learn how to share the gospel naturally in conversation, or understand why reaching the next generation matters so deeply. It is also for those curious about missions, campus outreach, or how to connect the gospel to the culture around them.

    Whether you have been a Christian for decades or are just beginning to explore what following Jesus looks like in real life, this message offers practical, biblically grounded encouragement to step into the mission field right outside your door.

    55 min
  • How to Actually Rewire an Anxious Brain

    Healing from trauma, anxiety, and emotional pain is possible. If you have been struggling with worry, negative thinking, or emotional wounds that just will not seem to go away, this message is for you. Rooted in Philippians 4 and Romans 12, four practical and biblical soul care practices can help you find genuine peace, rewire your thinking, and experience real emotional healing.

    Soul care and self care are not the same thing. Soul care is spiritual and primary. It is the work God does inside of us through His Word and the Holy Spirit. Self care is practical and secondary. It includes tools from counseling and psychology that help us regulate emotions, manage stress, and build healthier habits. When the two work together, transformation becomes possible.

    The four soul care practices covered in this message include gratitude, prayer, positive thinking, and renewing the mind. Gratitude is more than a feel-good habit. Science confirms it triggers the release of dopamine and serotonin, reducing cortisol and rewiring the brain toward emotional stability. Prayer, especially when paired with intentional breathing techniques like breath prayer, replaces anxiety with the supernatural peace described in Philippians 4:6-7. Positive thinking, as outlined in Philippians 4:8, means intentionally choosing to dwell on what is true, noble, just, pure, lovely, and praiseworthy rather than allowing negative thought patterns to dominate. And renewing the mind, as described in Romans 12:2, is what neuroscience now calls neuroplasticity. The brain can form new neural connections throughout our entire lives, and God spoke about this principle two thousand years before science had a name for it.

    Practical tools covered in this message include a simple morning gratitude practice, a breathing technique called four plus three equals seven, a three-step process for challenging anxious or negative thoughts, and how to use Scripture as an active agent of mental and emotional transformation.

    If you have been asking questions like how do I heal from trauma, how do I stop anxiety, how do I renew my mind, what does the Bible say about mental health, or how do I find peace, this message offers both biblical truth and practical steps to help you move forward.

    54 min
  • Stop Treating Your Body Like It Doesn’t Belong to God

    What you eat, how you sleep, and how you care for your body have a direct impact on your spiritual life, your relationships, and your ability to fulfill your God-given purpose. This teaching explores the powerful connection between physical health and faith, offering practical, biblically grounded guidance on nutrition, gut health, sleep, and whole-body stewardship.

    Topics covered include how to read food labels and avoid heavily processed ingredients, the gut-brain connection and why 90 percent of your serotonin is produced in your gut, how poor sleep affects your immune system, mood, and spiritual focus, and what to do when anxiety or unresolved guilt is keeping you awake at night. You will also find guidance on supplements, trusted brands, and how to start making small changes that add up over time.

    Whether you are dealing with brain fog, low energy, poor sleep, or just a sense that something is off, this teaching connects the dots between what is happening in your body and what is happening in your soul. Caring for your physical health is not about vanity. It is about honoring God with the body He gave you so you can show up fully for the life He has called you to live.

    36 min
  • Why Earthquakes, Wars, and COVID Are Not the Sign You Think

    What does the Bible actually say about the end times? If you have ever felt confused by all the different theories, timelines, and predictions floating around, this is a clear and grounded breakdown of what Scripture teaches about the last days, the return of Christ, and what we are supposed to be doing right now.

    Topics covered include:

    • Are we really living in the last days?
    • The difference between the early rain and the latter rain
    • A simple biblical timeline of end times events (Rapture, Tribulation, Second Coming, Final Judgment)
    • What the Antichrist and the mark of the beast actually mean
    • How Christians will be judged and why those in Christ have nothing to fear
    • The signs of the end times from Matthew 24 and the Olivet Discourse
    • The spiritual meaning behind earthquakes, famines, pestilence, and wars
    • Why we should stop trying to predict the date of Christ's return
    • The one sign of the end times you can actually participate in
    • How to pray for those who do not yet know Jesus
    • What Jesus expects to find us doing when He returns

    The end times are not meant to make us fearful or obsessed with predictions. They are meant to make us purposeful. The greatest move of God the world has ever seen is still ahead, and the gospel being preached to every nation is the sign that matters most.

    Whether you are new to studying Bible prophecy or have been studying it for years, this is a practical and biblically grounded look at the last days that will leave you encouraged and motivated to take action.

    Keywords: end times, last days, Bible prophecy, rapture, second coming of Christ, tribulation, antichrist, mark of the beast, signs of the end times, Matthew 24, Olivet Discourse, book of revelation, what does the Bible say about the end times, is Jesus coming back, final judgment, millennial reign, early rain and latter rain, Joel prophecy, Christian eschatology, end times timeline, how to prepare for the end times, gospel to all nations, Christian living, Holy Spirit revival

    1 hr 9 min
  • Shame is the Silent Killer of Marriages

    What happens when trauma, shame, or past wounds follow you into your marriage? This message digs into one of the most important and often overlooked realities of married life: unhealed pain does not stay in the past. It shapes how you communicate, how much you trust, and how safe you feel being truly known by your spouse.

    One of the most powerful insights covered here is the difference between your spouse triggering you and your spouse triggering the trigger. That one distinction can completely change how you approach conflict and where you direct your energy when things get hard.

    Topics covered include:

    • How unhealed trauma affects marriage and communication
    • What rebuilding trust actually looks like over time
    • The difference between guilt and shame, and why shame creates walls in relationships
    • Practical tools for having hard conversations without escalating conflict
    • How to keep your marriage strong when kids, work, and life take over
    • What biblical, covenant love really means and how it differs from feelings-based love
    • The meaning of agape love and 1 Corinthians 13 in the context of marriage

    Whether you are in a season of rebuilding, trying to prevent drift in your relationship, or simply looking for practical tools to strengthen your marriage, this message offers honest, grounded guidance rooted in Scripture and real life.

    1 hr 4 min
  • "I felt trapped in the call until God told me I could leave" - w/Guest Daniel Shirley

    What does it really look like to trust God through a long and difficult calling? The story of Word of Life Church in Carlsbad, New Mexico answers that question in a powerful and deeply personal way. Pastor Daniel received a call from the Holy Spirit in 1982 while standing in a driveway in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Nine years passed before the church launched. Those years were not a delay. They were preparation.

    When the church finally opened in 1991, the early days were marked by small crowds, financial hardship, and the kind of unglamorous faithfulness that rarely makes it into highlight reels. Pastor Daniel worked three jobs to keep his family afloat, delivering pizzas and newspapers while leading a congregation that sometimes consisted of just his own family. Yet through every hard season, the call remained clear: keep doing what God said to do.

    This message explores what the Bible teaches about holding on when you want to quit, why struggle does not mean you missed God, and how faith and patience working together over time produce the promises of God. Drawing from Hebrews 10:23, Hebrews 6:10-15, and 1 John 4:4, this is a word for anyone who is in the hard middle of something God called them to.

    Topics covered include how God calls people to ministry and purpose, why preparation time is not wasted time, what to do when obedience gets difficult, how to rehearse God's faithfulness to rewire your thinking toward hope, and what the Bible says to those who feel they have already walked away from their calling.

    If you have ever asked whether God is still with you in the struggle, whether your work is being seen, or whether it is too late to return to something you left behind, this message speaks directly to those questions.

    Keywords: trusting God's call, church planting story, faith and patience, long obedience, holding on to God's promises, Hebrews 10:23, God's faithfulness, ministry struggles, starting a church, purpose and calling, Christian encouragement, overcoming discouragement, Word of Life Church Carlsbad New Mexico, Abraham's faith, preparation season, God sees your work, not giving up on God's call, Christian perseverance, faith in hard times, Holy Spirit calling

    1 hr 10 min
  • Stop Hiding Your Grief… It’s Not Helping You Heal

    In this episode of the Doing Life Together podcast, we sit down with Chuck Burton from Tulsa, Oklahoma for a raw, honest, and surprisingly funny conversation about end-of-life planning.

    Chuck brings decades of wisdom as a former children’s pastor, care pastor, fire department chaplain, and current funeral home team member. We talk about why planning ahead matters so much, what a pre-need actually is, how emotional decisions drive up costs, and practical ways to take pressure off your family when the time comes.

    We also dig into the spiritual side of death and grief, healthy ways to mourn without getting stuck, the power of community and the local church in hard seasons, and why treating people right while they’re still here is one of the greatest gifts you can give.

    There are laughs, real stories, a few tears, and plenty of practical takeaways for anyone in their 30s, 40s, or beyond who wants to love their family well all the way to the finish line.

    Thanks for doing life with us. We love you.

    59 min
  • I Thought God Was Done With Me

    Are you exhausted from trying to hold up your end of a deal with God that He never asked you to make? So many people carry hidden wounds while continuing to serve, lead, and worship, never letting God into the places that hurt most. This is a conversation about perfectionism, shame, grief, and what it actually looks like to stop performing faith and start experiencing it.

    Key topics covered include:

    • Why striving to earn God's grace is a misunderstanding of the gospel
    • What Galatians 2:20 and Hebrews 10:14 reveal about faith, perfection, and the Christian life
    • How grief and loss can distort our view of God and lead to spiritual burnout
    • Why worship can become a hiding place instead of a healing place
    • What happens when you finally tell God the honest truth
    • The difference between healthy deconstruction and losing your faith
    • How to invite God into your everyday weakness

    Scriptures referenced: Galatians 2:20, Hebrews 10:14, Philippians 3:12-14, John 4:23, 2 Corinthians 12:9-10

    If you have ever felt like you were drowning underneath a performance of faith, if you have ever served harder out of guilt than out of joy, if there is a room in your heart you have kept locked because you are afraid of what is inside, this message is for you. God is not waiting on the other side of your honesty with judgment. He is waiting with gentleness.

    1 hr 19 min
  • Stop Spiritually Bypassing your Trauma

    Are you carrying deep wounds from trauma, anxiety, depression, or broken relationships and wondering if healing is truly possible? The answer is yes, but it often requires more than a prayer line. It requires doing the work.

    In this message, we explore what total health really means for a Christian, covering mental, emotional, relational, and spiritual wholeness. Drawing from John 10:10, Romans 12, James 5, Psalm 34, and Philippians 4, we unpack why so many believers stay stuck and what God has made available for real, lasting healing.

    Topics covered include:

    • What spiritual bypassing is and why it is dangerous
    • How biblical meditation supports mental health and rewires the brain
    • The connection between anxiety, fear, and depression
    • How breath work is both scientifically effective and spiritually grounded
    • What neuroplasticity has to do with renewing your mind
    • How to avoid a victim mindset after trauma
    • Why choosing to pursue healing is itself an act of faith

    Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, past trauma, or simply feeling stuck, this message offers practical, biblically grounded tools to help you move forward. God works through prayer, through people, and through professional help. He does not waste pain, and He is near to the brokenhearted.

    1 hr 2 min

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Pastor's Jason and Tiffany Shirley talk about life, ministry, current events and relevant topics to bring encouragement and strength to your life. Jason and Tiffany have been married to over 20…