Done With Adulting

We’re coming off a few weeks of amazing guests so Asia and Jareed are catching up about what they have been up to. Asia talks about her first time going out in DC since the pandemic and Jareed is discussing his 30th birthday plans as he inches closer to fatherhood. 

We also discuss: 

• Favorite guests from the last couple weeks
• What we’re watching on Netflix
• No mask mandate in Massachusetts 
• Returning to work in person
• Choosing a name for baby Gaines
• Upcoming content for Pride Month

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This interview has been a long time coming and today Asia and Jareed will talk with one of their friends who is a black man and works as a police officer in New England. We’re discussing many aspects about his experience in law enforcement and how being a black man in the height of the Black Lives Matter movement has or has not affected how he does his job. We also discuss how police departments react/respond to the killing of black Americans at the hands of police officers, and his experience working the riots that follow. We want to thank our anonymous guest for having such an open and honest conversation about his unique experience.

This week we wanted to honor Mental Health Awareness Month and shed light on an issue that affects so many of us. It is often the stresses of adulting that can push us to the edge, which is exactly what happened in James Hodges story. Tune into this episode to hear about James’ breaking point, his decision to attend in patient rehabilitation, and how he has addressed and overcome decades old trauma along the way. We want to thank James for sharing his story so vulnerably and hope that his experience will help you feel like you are not alone. 

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The Don Firearms, Inc. (TDF) offers a wide range of specialty training that serves as the gateway program for beginner and intermediate shooters. Donkor Minors began teaching firearms safety for community members in his living room, in hopes to educate the public in their rights to protect themself and those they love. Now he’s educated over 1000 Black and Latino families through his efforts. Today, Asia and Jareed will talk with Donkor about his work, why he believes firearms ownership is a healing modality, and his take on mass shootings in the United States. 

We also discuss: 

• The history of Black gun ownership 
• Youth firearm education 
• Home safety plans

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Today’s interview is sacred and special as this is Aymie’s first time publicly sharing her story with domestic abuse. Aymie survived a 6 year relationship with a narcissistic man who financially, physically and psychologically abused her throughout their time together. She goes deep with Asia and Jareed about how this relationship affected life in her 20’s, when and how she was able to overcome the abuse, and what it is like to be starting over on her own while she heals. 

Other things we discuss: 

• Traits of a narcissist 
• Cognitive dissonance 
• Signs & red flags to look out for in a relationship 
• Trauma bonding
• How you can support a friend or family member in an abusive relationship
• Tips for “starting over”
• Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD)
• Brain spotting therapy

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We are interviewing a VERY special guest today, and if you were born in the 90’s this will be a treat for you too! Sammie is one of the few in the music industry to make the successful transition from pre-teen hitmaker to grown-up artist. He first gained notoriety with the Gold-certified top 25 Billboard Hot 100 hit “I Like It” back in 1999 and is still making hits! Asia and Jareed are secretly “fan-girling” this episode, as they are both huge fans. Sammie is spilling his secrets on what it was like to transition to adulthood in the spotlight, how he overcame adversity and has remained authentic to himself and his craft. 

Starts at approx. 26:30

Before the Interview we also discuss: 

• Jareed’s Baby Moon
• Asia’s second dose vaccine side effects
• Derek Chauvin guilty verdict 
• Ma’Khia Bryant’s death 
• Privileged white women in Asia’s instagram DM’s 

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Navigating your twenties is truly a wild time. It’s filled with learning, opportunity and growth - which can feel overwhelming when it’s coming at you full speed.

If you feel this way currently, know that you’re not alone!

Today’s guests are Asia & Jareed, who are the co-hosts of the Done with Adulting Podcast. Join us as they share their experience during their twenties, how they were able to navigate their life during this time and how their experience has been amplified being black in America.

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Asia and Jareed are new to setting boundaries, and they are sharing where they are in the process and why on this week’s episode. They will also discuss why setting boundaries is so important and give personal examples of what this looks like in each of their lives. Towards the end, Jareed shares what type of boundaries he is planning to set throughout his parenting journey. 

We also discuss: 

• The death of Prince Phillip, Duke of Edinburgh 
• The death of Earl Simmons aka DMX
• The trial of Derek Chauvin (police officer accused of murdering George Floyd)

Articles referenced in the episode: HEALTHLINE - The No BS Guide to Protecting Your Emotional Space

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NEW JOB ALERT! Asia start’s her new job and is spilling the tea on why she left her old job and the challenges that lie ahead at the new opportunity. Jareed shares his ultimate pet peeve when it comes to the hiring process and the two discuss why complacency can do more harm than good. 

We also discuss: 

• Jareed’s gender reveal! 
• Advocating for promotions and raises 
• When it might be time to leave your job 
• Virtual onboarding at a new role 

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With so many unfortunate events happening around us, we’re seeing a lot of gas lighting and micro aggressions going on! Asia and Jareed sit down to discuss what it means to gaslight someone, and how we often use microaggressions every day and don’t even know it. The two are sharing some very personal experiences in both of these areas, and Asia is telling a crazy story about her recent trip. 

We also discuss: 

• Meghan and Harry’s interview with Oprah 
• Atlanta Spa Shootings 
• How to recognize a microaggression 
• Ways to avoid gas lighting others 

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