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Some of the damage in your life didn’t come from others, it came from access you allowed.
In this episode of MON, I share how ignoring red flags and betraying your values can slowly damage your peace and identity. Learn how to trust your discernment, protect what God placed inside you, and stop abandoning yourself trying to keep what was never meant to stay.
You are not the guest in your life. You are the owner.
Timestamps
00:00 Intro 01:32 MON Stories — Recognizing Red Flags Early04:14 How We Damage Ourselves by Allowing Access04:32 Room Theory — Who Has Access to Your Heart05:56 Your Presence Has Power09:19 The Courage to Be Disliked — Identity & Approval10:00 Bees vs Flies Analogy — Protect Your Value12:12 Distractions — What Pulls You Out of Alignment15:14 Closing — Discernment, Protection & Peace
MON Takeaways:
• Protect what God placed inside you• Not everyone deserves access to your heart• Red flags are warnings, not invitations• Approval is not required for alignment• Discernment protects your peace• Don’t damage who you are trying to keep others
By IdelysSome of the damage in your life didn’t come from others, it came from access you allowed.
In this episode of MON, I share how ignoring red flags and betraying your values can slowly damage your peace and identity. Learn how to trust your discernment, protect what God placed inside you, and stop abandoning yourself trying to keep what was never meant to stay.
You are not the guest in your life. You are the owner.
Timestamps
00:00 Intro 01:32 MON Stories — Recognizing Red Flags Early04:14 How We Damage Ourselves by Allowing Access04:32 Room Theory — Who Has Access to Your Heart05:56 Your Presence Has Power09:19 The Courage to Be Disliked — Identity & Approval10:00 Bees vs Flies Analogy — Protect Your Value12:12 Distractions — What Pulls You Out of Alignment15:14 Closing — Discernment, Protection & Peace
MON Takeaways:
• Protect what God placed inside you• Not everyone deserves access to your heart• Red flags are warnings, not invitations• Approval is not required for alignment• Discernment protects your peace• Don’t damage who you are trying to keep others