Dont Make Me Call Her

Procrastinating on something right now? Perfect, you’re in the right place.

This week on DMMCH, we talk about rewiring your brain for the tasks you hate. Your brain is a drama queen, and the task is almost never as bad as the 59 minutes you spent dreading it. We share some tools to think differently but the big secret is this: start small, stop overthinking it.

Don't forget to check out their new baby 'GRACE LAM STYLE CREATIVE CLASS'. Grace's first online styling course for women who are looking Grace to solve their fashion problems in daily dressing. Get her limited Asian discount now!

www.gracelamstyle.com/creativeclass

New episodes drop everyWednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.

Hosts:  Grace Lam andJason Capobianco

Follow us on: Instagram:@gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle / @jasoncapobiancophotography

TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher /@gracelamstyle

DMMCH podcast is available onSpotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. 

If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!

For ‘What Would Grace Do?’segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. 

Produced by Herrrooo Production

Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Another episode no one has asked for LOL. Forget WTF and IDK This week on Don’t Make Me Call Her, Grace and Jason go deep on acronyms: who TF still uses them? they share some that only make sense at Casa Capo-Lam.

Grace has a particular GL way of using her own versions, and it’s not always obvious what she means. Jason has opinions.

Don't forget to check out their new baby 'GRACE LAM STYLE CREATIVE CLASS'. They spent nine months making their second child (a work baby clearly people!). This is Grace's inaugural online styling course for women who are looking for solutions to solve their daily fashion dilemmas. Limited time applies for Grace's Asian discount! Get on it everyone! Early Christmas gift idea!

www.gracelamstyle.com/creativeclass

The small biz shout-out also returns, DM us on Instagram @gracelamChats if you want our mention on the pod.

Colourful language and brutal honesty included, as always.

New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.

Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco

Follow us on: Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle / @jasoncapobiancophotography

TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher /@gracelamstyle

DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leaveus a fun five-star review! Thank You. 

If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!

For ‘What Would Grace Do?’segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. 

Produced by Herrrooo Production

Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠⁠

Grace Lam Style Creative Class Has Launched!

This week on DMMCH, announcing our second baby to the world 'Grace Lam Style Creative Class' my brand new online styling and fashion course for those women who want to change their image but don't know how, and yes, I’m shamelessly promoting it to my 20 loyal listeners (you know who you are, and thank you for getting your credit card out).

We get into what GLSCC actually is, why I built it, and what it’s like to launch an inaugural series from scratch. Spoiler: it’s scary. It’s always scary at first.

But here’s the thing. Whatever you’ve been sitting on, the project, the idea, the thing you keep saying “someday” about, this is your sign to jump in. Failure isn’t embarrassing. Never even trying is. Trust the process, start messy, and figure it out as you go.

So listen in, get inspired, and then go buy my class NOW. Thanks for your support peeps!

www.gracelamstyle/creativeclass

Instagram: @gracelamstyle

New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.

Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco

Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle/ @jasoncapobiancophotography

TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle

DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. 

If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!

For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. 

Produced by Herrrooo Production

Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠

Festive season is coming sooner than we think. Which means obligatory work parties, relatives you see once a year for a reason and your annoying boss who somehow always finds you in a crowd. You’re going to need help.

Good news — Grace is here and she is an absolute master of small talk. This week she hands you the survival guide you didn’t know you needed. How long do you actually have to stay at a boring event? Spoiler — there is a number and it is smaller than you think. Grace has a strategy. Jason, a self-proclaimed introvert, wants to know exactly how Grace handles annoying people at work parties and relatives who ask the same three questions every single Christmas. And somewhere in this episode Grace says something about cats that will have the animal rights people asking questions.

If you are an introvert, this episode was made for you. If you are an extrovert, listen anyway so you understand what the rest of us are going through.

It’s always chaos at Casa Lam-Capo. Welcome back our 15 loyal listeners!

New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get intoit.

Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco

Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle/ @jasoncapobiancophotography

TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle

DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube.Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! ThankYou. 

If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagramfollowers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!

For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in yourdilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our uselessadvice. 

Produced by Herrrooo Production

Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠

Pack your bags people! This week Grace and Jason are hunting down their number one listener - out of their fifteen loyal fans. This episode they are taking you on a world tour of every city they've called home.

From Hong Kong to London, New York to Paris, then Perth, Sydney and Melbourne, the couple compare notes. Where would they never, ever go back?

The big question: is Melbourne the best place to live in Australia? Grace's answer is an immediate and unwavering "AbsoFckingLutely." Jason, well, you'll have to listen to see how that debate goes.

They also get real about safety for women in different cities, sharing what they've noticed. Find out how a tiny Japanese grocery store could make Grace so happy every weekend.

And which country will be their next abode. When will it happen? Are they leaving Melbourne already after a year and a half of living there? Hit play and find out.

Colourful language and brutal honesty included, as always.

New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get intoit.

Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco

Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle/ @jasoncapobiancophotography

TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle

DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube.Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! ThankYou. 

If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagramfollowers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!

For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in yourdilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our uselessadvice. 

Produced by Herrrooo Production

Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠

We went to Hong Kong for a family vacay and it delivered. Every. Single. Time.

This week — a city where people walk fast and talk loud, and no that does not mean they are rude, it means they have somewhere to be and something important banter to share. Food is the number one priority in Hong Kong, if you don't like to eat...don't go to Hong Kong. We're talking one Michelin Star spicy fish pot, must-eat egg waffles and the kind of hole-in-the-wall Hong Kong style restaurant that has no business being that good. Shop like a local and get further Asian discounts. Watch out for dripping air con water falling from above because someone up high want to hydrate you face whether you like it or not. Also — dogs and cats in prams are everywhere. No judgement!

And finally, Hong Kong Tea Cafe service. Day one — you will think they hate you. Day three — you are family. That's not rudeness, that's just tough love and honestly it's the most Hong Kong thing there is. Miss it already. See you again HK!

New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get intoit.

Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco

Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle/ @jasoncapobiancophotography

TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle

DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. 

If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagramfollowers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!

For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. 

Produced by Herrrooo Production

Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠

We're back. Nobody asked, but here we are.

This week — it's official, our smartphones are our meal companions. We've all just collectively agreed that our phones are better company than the people sitting opposite us. Then, Melbourne baristas — talented, passionate, devoted to their craft — but do they think they're the coffee GOD? Grace is a self-proclaimed non-animal person and yet somehow has very strong opinions on who should and shouldn't be allowed to own a dog. Big or small. She's judging either way. And finally, there is a question — asked constantly, by a very specific type of person — that drives Grace absolutely up the wall. Listen now and find out what it is. You're welcome.

New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get intoit.

Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco

Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle/ @jasoncapobiancophotography

TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle

DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube.Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! ThankYou. 

If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagramfollowers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!

For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in yourdilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our uselessadvice. 

Produced by Herrrooo Production

Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠

This week we return to our favourite format: Two nobodies, zero plan, whatever's on our minds. First up a big shout-out to our 14 loyal listeners, who show up every Wednesday for reasons we genuinely cannot explain and frankly don't deserve. Then we get into why "where are you from?" has somehow become a very loaded question and why an entire generation now watches live concerts exclusively through a 6-inch phone screen instead of, you know, being there. As always: no research, no filter, mostly just vibes. Thanks for tuning in again — whoever you 14 are. Keep It Real People!

New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get intoit.

Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco

Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle/ @jasoncapobiancophotography

TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle

DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube.Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! ThankYou. 

If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagramfollowers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!

For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in yourdilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our uselessadvice. 

Produced by Herrrooo Production

Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠

We eavesdropped on our teen's phone call recently, purely for research purposes, and came away with more questions than answers. No time was agreed. No location was mentioned. At no point did anyone say a full sentence. And yet, apparently, plans were made. This week we take a good hard look at how younger generation communicate, compare to the Gen X and Boomer approach and try to work out how an entire generation became fluent in vibes but not in venues. Along the way: the quiet epidemic of loneliness hiding behind 900 online friends, and why answering an unscheduled phone call is now considered a hate crime. Kettle on. This one requires many cuppa tea.

New episodes drop every Wednesday.

Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco

Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle/ @jasoncapobiancophotography

TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle

DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube.Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! ThankYou. 

If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagramfollowers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!

For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in yourdilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our uselessadvice. 

Produced by Herrrooo Production

Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠

This week on Don't Make Me Call Her podcast, We are running an unofficial masterclass in one of Grace's most well-practiced skills: taking a completely minor inconvenience and turning it into a full-blown disaster, entirely inside her own head. Dramatic much Grace Lam?

We break down the actual psychology behind it because apparently this isn't just Grace being dramatic, experts narrow it down to childhood, trauma, genetics, the whole catalogue — we get into where this pattern actually comes from. Jason, as always, remains baffled by how quickly Grace can go from "0 to 1000000000" without any warning.

New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.

Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco

Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle / @jasoncapobiancophotography

TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle

DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. 

If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!

For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. 

Produced by Herrrooo Production

Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠