Kings and Queens, in this episode I was joined by well-renowned speaker Andrea Mason. We heard Andrea's story and came to understand how severely unforgiveness can impact you mentally, emotionally, and physically. The power of forgiveness doesn't just free us from the prison we may be in but also the vicious cycles we may be facing. We established forgiveness isn't just for people close to you but most importantly it's for you. 

Don't allow toxicity to thrive in your settings but always ensure you have a serene and peaceful area to thrive. Your past makes you into who you were always meant to be it's not your final destination.

If you have a question or need advice feel free to send me a message at [email protected]

You ever came across someone and they are appealing to you physically but along the way, little alarm bells begin to ring? Honey, that's your intuition-raising concern about the red flags you are seeing. In this episode, I was joined by Cesam Empowers, who is a coach on lifestyle, dating, and college. In this episode, she told us how to recognize deal breakers and what we must not tolerate in relationships. 

Have you ever heard the term 'monkey bars'? Well, Coach Sam broke that term down for us and I tell you, this isn't something you should miss. She gave us the truth raw and candid just the way we like it at DSDTM. Come join us in this wonderful discussion.

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Hey Fam, In this episode we are joined by a best-selling author and relationship breakthrough coach Paul Sterling, who has traveled the world teaching couples the dynamics of a successful relationship. He joined us to teach us the importance of intimacy and how to develop it. We discussed communication and the importance of gratitude in a relationship. If ya' 'll know your girl by now, you know I can talk and this topic had me speechless. This isn't an episode to miss!

P.S. If you listen to the end you will be given instructions on how to get his book FREE of charge. Don't say I never hooked you up!

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In this episode, I was joined by my best friend Rebecca. This episode was very candid and eye-opening, with lots of laughter and 'omg' moments. Within this conversation, we came to the conclusion that KFC represents Krazy Fiery Chick as we are no one's option if we are not the only option. We discussed how our parents not processing their trauma can affect us with their unresolved issues which in return creates us to have serious problems within ourselves and our relationships. 

Want advice or even have a scenario we can react to contact us at [email protected].

In this episode, I was joined by my mother. If you know anything about my mom she is outspoken and very blunt thus this episode was full of laughter, disagreements, and advice. This episode shows the difference between the generation as we discussed the roles of a man and a woman in the marriage, finances as a couple and she gave advice to single women who still desire to be married.

If you would like some advice or want to share your story, even have a story for us to react to contact us at [email protected].

In this episode, we wrapped up seasoned two with the tagline of the podcast. We dive into the discourse of what it means to truly survive, thrive, and flourish. We explained the importance of these three fundamental principles that the Don't Speak Defeat To Me team lives by.

We also introduced a new segment of the show called 'Yo! that's crazy.' In this segment, we will be giving our reaction to some of the bizarre things we see on social media. We will also be giving our thoughts on scenarios as well. If you have any scenarios or have crazy questions to be answered, send them to [email protected].

How can you survive this season you're currently in?

What has this season taught you to embrace?

What areas of your life have you flourished in as you shifted your mindset?

What does it take to shift into position? In the episode we dissect the pre-requisites of shifting or we can say "leveling up". What is required of you to become who you are always meant to be. Take a listen be blessed as we get deep and candid about working on ourselves.

Ask yourself these question:

1. How can I level up?

2. How do I ensure that all my bad habits are broken?

3. Am I putting on a persona or am I truly authentic in everything I do?

How do you react to rejection?  Are you someone who needs to be validated and approved by others? If you this episode speaks on how allowing others to affect us this way can create serious consequences. We must come to a place of accepting everyone isn't your friend.

Are you someone who gets triggered easily? This episode focuses on the point of view of what and why it triggers you and not pay heed to who says it. We also talk about the way we perceive criticism and others opinions. Let's be individuals who listen from a place of humility and not from emotional ears.

Disclaimer: Volume in this episode is somewhat loud.