Life has a very good way at throwing us a lot of things and more often than not it can be very overwhelming to figure out what to do in certain situations. The funny thing is that when you go through all of this you feel better because of the resistance. You're actually doing things that are uncomfortable that allow for the discomfort to fuel growth inherently. Now the hard part is trying to identify who it is you are what it is you stand for and creating that belief within yourself enough to never stop. It's about the consistency in your actions it's not about what your doing, it's about how consistently are doing it whether be bad in whether it be good it or bad it will offer that sort of influence but it all depends on the level of consistency. Which entails you never giving up and not giving up and not stopping. Think of rocky Balboa in round 12.