Donuts & Divorce: A Family Law Podcast

In this episode, Dorothy discussed cheating/infidelity/adultery, and its impact on divorces and separation.

Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.

The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode Dorothy is joined by Co-Founding Partner, Attorney Aleksandra Kocelko to discuss cohabitation and living with someone with whom you are in a relationship, but not married.  There are legal ramifications that people often don't consider in entering into this relationship, especially when they choose to purchase a house together, without being married.

Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.

The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy interviews Tanya Bashor to discuss narcissism, and the impact of narcissism on divorce cases.  

Tanya Bashor is a Certified Narcissistic Trauma Informed Coach, Hypnotherapist & Brainspotting Practitioner, and the owner of Impart Clarity, LLC.  Tanya offers information, education, strategies for those who have been emotionally abused by narcissistic personalities.  

Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.

The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy interviews Dr. Jonathan Impellizzeri, or "Dr. J" to discuss "marital purgatory" and what options or resources are available to married persons whose marriages are at the brink of "Do I Stay or Do I Go?"

Dr. Jonathan Impellizzeri, PhD, LPC, LMFT, ACS, BC-TMH, also knows as "Dr. J" is the first Certified Gottman Couple Therapist (CGT) in Western Pennsylvania.  CGTs have specialized training in a research-based approach to treating distressed couple relationships.  Click here to read more about Dr. J.

Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.

The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this Episode, Dorothy is joined by Co-Founder of BOK Law & Mediation Services, Attorney Aleksandra Kocelko, to discuss dating after your separation, when it is appropriate to notify your ex, and when it is appropriate to introduce your significant other to your children.

Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.

The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko outline what you should do, and what you should avoiding doing during your initial separation from your ex.

Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.

The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

It's 2022 and a New Year!  If your New Year's resolution involves finalizing that separation, or initiating that divorce, Dorothy suggested pursuing this as you would a New Year's resolution, and breaks down how to do that!

Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.

The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy is joined by Lynn MacBeth to discuss the impact divorce or separation can have on children, including how children can interpret the divorce or separation.

Lynn MacBeth is recognized both locally and nationally as a leading conflict mediator.  Her practice focuses on workplace, family, business, and liability cases.  She holds the designation of Advanced Practitioner and is a provider of Basic Family Mediation Training approved by the Association for Conflict Resolution.  To say that Lynn MacBeth is a powerhouse in her field, is an understatement!

Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.

The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this Episode, Dorothy is joined by Donna Cheswick, owner of Cheswick Divorce Solutions, to discuss the financial impact of divorce on parties.  

Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.

The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this Episode, Dorothy is joined by co-founder Aleksandra Kocelko to discuss how to navigate the holidays during a divorce or separation.  Whether it is your first time navigating the holidays after separation, or you've been doing it for years, we offer some tips and tricks on how to get through the holidays with some optimism!

Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.

The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.