Dopamine & Detours

Dopamine & Detours

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Dopamine & Detours episodes

  • You're Not Ready For This Update

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    This episode is a little bit of everything. We share an update on our most recent transfer, talk about how Angel Tree shopping went, and break down some of the most common IVF questions and misconceptions we keep hearing. Then we switch gears and read a completely unhinged Reddit story with a twist you truly won’t see coming.

    36 min
  • The Bladder Olympics: IVF Edition

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    In this episode of Dopamine and Detours, we walk through our embryo transfer day, the nerves, the emotions, and the absolute drama of trying to keep a full bladder without fully losing our minds. Then, as always, we spiral straight into TikTok worm holes and ridiculous Reddit stories because… coping.

    46 min
  • Accountable-ish

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    This week we’re kicking off our Angel Tree giving and raising money to get the kids exactly what they want for Christmas. If you’d like to help, you can donate on Venmo at 

    @ashley-harbart or @jordan_flores0624

    Don't forget to grab McDonalds french fries Friday November 21st and send us a pic to help support us during our IVF transfer. 

    We also talk about an awkward friend situation we somehow got stuck in the middle of, give a quick IVF update, and read a couple of wild Reddit dilemmas. It’s a short, sweet, chaotic little episode and we loved it. 🎄💛

    49 min
  • Brandi’s Detour: Cancer Survival, Addiction, and Redemption

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    In this week’s episode, we sit down with Brandi, who opens up for the first time about her story. One that’s equal parts heartbreaking and inspiring. She shares how surviving cancer as a baby left her with lifelong side effects, and how a single canon event in her teens triggered an eating disorder that eventually spiraled into addiction, harder drugs, and jail time.

    What follows is an honest look at the long, painful road to recovery the kind of healing that strips you down to nothing before rebuilding you into who you were always meant to be. Brandi’s story is proof that even at rock bottom, it’s never too late to start again and that the same person who once struggled to survive can become an incredible mom, a kind soul, and a light for others.

    Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of suicide, eating disorders, drug use, and trauma. Please listen with care.

    1 hr 23 min
  • Drafts Folder Energy

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    An episode that starts with good intentions and derails beautifully. No outline, no point just pure chaos, laughter, and random thoughts.

    44 min
  • Halloween Quickie

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    Happy Halloween! This week we talk IVF updates, past halloween costumes and read listener "irrational fears." 

    38 min
  • Chapter 10

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    This week we do a little housekeeping, clear up a few medical terms from last episode, and send love to our cousin’s soccer team for making it to state! Ashley reads a TikTok of a woman giving advice to her 35-year-old self and it hits deep. Jordan shares his thoughts about the Mariners and anonymous listener questions, unexpected laughs, and a special FaceTime drop-in from our cousin and her baby. Real life, real moments, real talk.

    Alchemised // SenLinYu

    Don't forget to get McDonalds on November 21st--and send us a pic to be featured on our Instagram! 

    42 min
  • From Barbershop Dreams to NICU Nights with Taylor & Tyson

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    What happens when your biggest dream and your hardest season collide? Jordan’s brother Tyson and his girlfriend Taylor join us to share their journey through opening a barbershop while their baby fought for life in the NICU. It's real, raw, and a reminder that every detour has its purpose. 
    Trigger warning: Miscarriage. Medical Abortion. Blood. 

    1 hr 12 min
  • Side Quest Anonymous

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    You asked for it — literally. In this episode, we dive into your anonymous questions, and nothing is off-limits. From spicy confessions to relationship chaos to the weirdest “would you rather” submissions we’ve ever seen, we’re answering it all with zero filter and way too much laughter.

    It’s unhinged. It’s honest. It’s NSFW (obviously).
    Grab your headphones — this one’s not for the office.

    48 min
  • The One With Koko

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    In this episode, we sit down with our close friend to hear about her journey from Pocatello to Colorado to Canada. Her friend’s wild bear spray story, and why she moved back to Idaho. We ask dumb questions, share laughs, and dive into some Reddit chaos — including one NSFW (NOT SAFE FOR WORK) story you don’t want to miss.

    1 hr 3 min

About Dopamine & Detours

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Dopamine & Detours is about riding the waves of life — the highs, the lows, and all the unexpected side quests along the way. Born out of our own infertility journey, this podcast dives into…