Maintenance - It is the terminology that houses Self Love, Self Respect and Self Discipline. Step 1) Achieve Self Love, this will automatically trigger Self Respect. You need to forgive yourself for the past, make amends with people around you, exercise, take vitamins, eat healthily, sleep well and be in the company of others. Step 2) Self Respect, to honour your moral and ethical boundaries, you respect yourself enough not to put yourself in a dangerous situation. Step 3) Self Discipline, this is the key ingredient to ensure Self Love and Self Respect is constantly being maintained.