There are character and behavior patterns in all of us, that those closest to us suffer through, that we have not been willing to acknowledge or address. Maybe we don't even know what they are. These patterns, whether direct or indirect, overt or hidden, can inhibit intimacy in our relationships, kill productivity at work, hinder thriving in our homes, and for some of us, have been a significant source of pain in our lives, and for those we love the most. These patterns over time can be the occasion for business partnerships dissolving, marriages unraveling, and families becoming divided for decades. Everyone around you has tried to bring it up, they wish you would listen, but you have been unwilling to hear. Why? Maybe you long to change, but you have been stuck, for years, maybe decades, and you have given up hope, as has everyone around you, that your life can be different.