Sex and intimacy are universal components of the human experience, sparking complex emotions from joy to pain to excitement, from grief to pleasure. How you work through sex and intimacy with your partners can make a critical difference in your happiness.

Dr. Britney Blair, licensed clinical psychologist, Stanford professor, and founder of The Clinic, joins The Most Days Show to give the low-down on getting down, from the pleasure gap to the four ways to respond to sexual invitations to concrete ways to talk to your partner about your desires.