Do you have an unhealthy view of love? Find out how Dr. Velma discovered her codependcy issue.

In her discussion, Dr. Velma follows up her last episode by going into detail with the Love is a Choice Workbook, our reminder that Paul says in Hebrews 12:1 "to lay aside every weight.."  Written by Chrisitians doctors, the workbook addresses codependency and how it shows up in unhealthy ways we love.

Dr. Velma invites listeners to share their responses to her questions by emailing her at: [email protected]

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What happens when you try to force a person to change and the person refuses. Should you continue to pursue this person? Is this the right thing to do?: Is this high school dating? Dating for marriage is the right strategy, not the high school dating method. Tune in to learn more

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Dr. Velma discusses one of her workshop topics entitled The BTL - Build the List, Believe the List and Become the List in the Husband to-be-Prayer LIst. She warns about focusing attention on conditions which will change in time, rather than on the characteristics/qualities of the person. She uses 1 Samuel 16:11 to show that God used the David's characteristics/his heart, to chose him as king.

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Dr. Velma reads an excerpt from the CATCH Series Book One to address the importance of learning about foolish behavior. The series refers to foolish behavior as RED flags (retreat extremely dangerous). She references Book Four of the series, The Book of Fools and stresses the importance of understanding this behavior in dating, friendships and business.

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In this episode, Dr. Velma talks about our walk as believers and how it does not work without faith. But she questions why many believe God can do anything in our lives, except help us discover our mate. Discover the importance of keeping God at the center of everything about your journey to a godly marriage. Dr. Velma shares three things to help you.  

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Dr. Velma provides her welcome and introduction to what you can expect during her TALKS. She highlights her "why" when she began this journey to help single women become the right mate to discover the right mate. 

She refers to her 4-book CATCH Series about dating the wrong people and how the scriptures guide us in choosing wisely.   She blames these mistakes on what she calls a "high school dating method" versus using a "date for marriage" strategy. She introduces topics such as ignoring RED flags and making excuses for poor behavior, women embracing their worth and value, asking the right questions to examine the man's heart, and the importance of preparing for marriage—an art that has gotten lost, and more.   

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