Episode 204: ‘Drag & the Destruction Cycle‘ (Lysol Tony-Romeo)

How do you learn to fade your hitman? Reverend and Drag enthusiast Lysol Tony-Romeo moves to San Francisco in pursuit of the 3 Ps: legal pot, public transportation and punk rock music. But when a drunken brawl with a roommate lands him in a year long domestic violence class, he commits to 52 weeks of unlearning toxic masculinity. Can Lysol ditch old male role belief systems to become an open, vulnerable human being? And If you can’t admit you’re afraid, how can you ever feel safe? #Gender #LearnedBehavior #ArtisticGrowth #FightOrFlight #LeopardHeels #EmotionWheel   About this week’s storyteller:    Lysol Tony – Romeo is the lead conceptual force behind the First Church of the Sacred Silversexual,  which has won a SF Best of the Bay’s Editors Pick and puts on a yearly Bowie Birthday Bash at The Chapel in San Francisco each January.  He’s mounted a conceptual political campaign as DJ Action President, in the form of a YouTube channel featuring satirical political ads and commentary on big donations in politics.  He is a founding member of Music For The Apocalypse (or MuFTA) a theatrical dance punk band is in no way to be held legally responsible for the current apocalypse. Learn more about David Bowie’s Birthday Bash at https://www.facebook.com/bowielovesyou/   Song: ‘Now you’re a Man’ (DVDA) Episode Links: LikeAKitten: The holidays are coming up. 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