Luke 12:1 "Beware of the leaven of the Pharisees which is hypocrisy." Hypocrisy means to pretend and be an actor. The religious spirit loves control, performance and punishment.
16 signs of being in a spiritually abusive ministry/church.
1. Leadership teaches that God must speak to them first before He speaks to you.
2. Leadership curses those who leave their church & speak death over them saying they are setting themselves up to die since they are out of their covering.
3. Leadership makes you feel guilty to stay connected to or are in relationship with those who leave the church or are part of another ministry.
4. Leadership overemphasizes teaching on submission to leadership.
5. Leaders publicly humiliate those they are threatened by or are jealous of. They will be passive aggressive in their sermons & their social media.
6. Leadership surrounds themselves with "yes men" & have no accountability. Their inner circles usually do a lot of their dirty work.
7. Leadership makes it known that personal life decisions have to be first approved by the leadership such as where you should invest, work, move or who you should date or marry.
8. Leadership discourages you to read or listen to any other ministries that they don't approve of.
9. Leadership bullies through manipulation and intimidation.
10. Leadership blames everyone else for the churches problems. Leadership is never transparent.
11. Leadership blocks or defriends those on social media who have left their church & encourages others to as well by calling the people who have left rebellious & dishonorable.
12. Leadership promises promotion to others but never promotes others into their ministries. They constantly dangle the carrot over their head but never give them an opportunity.
13. Leadership manipulates people to give offerings.
14. Leadership talks about loyalty, commitment and honor in excess and demand to be called by titles.
15. Leadership help breakup marriages
16. Leadership is suspicious of all ministries that are in their area or region & don't fellowship with them.