Intimate details of marriages are none of our business, but here we are discussing the entanglements going on in celebrity marriages instead of arresting Breonna Taylor's killers-Myles Cosgrove, Brett Hankinson and Jonathan Mattingly. W5hyrzvt

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Independence day for our white counterparts hits different since the murder of George Floyd and Minister Louis Farrakhan help bring that message home in what felt like the last message he will deliver before he dies.

I began discussing validation just as George Floyd was being murdered in Minneapolis. Since then, the BLM movement has gained wings and protests have nudged us toward some much-needed changes. This is my personal reflection of how seeking out validation has affected the trajectory of my Black life.

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I'm peeling back the layers, I'm drilling down baby! Where on earth does this need for validation come from? What makes this a part of 'love language'?

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