What if the greatest threat to your marriage isn't a big blowup — but a slow, quiet drift?

Most couples don't choose to grow apart. Life just fills up — work, kids, exhaustion, routine — and before long, you're living next to your spouse instead of moving toward them. In this episode of Everyday I Do, we talk openly about the danger of marital drift and what the Bible says about the one thing that keeps couples from becoming roommates: intentional pursuit.

Drawing from Song of Solomon, Ephesians 5, and the example of a God who never stopped chasing after his people, they explore why pursuing your spouse isn't a dating-season thing — it's a lifelong calling.

In this episode:

1. Why drift, not conflict, is often the quiet killer of marriages
2. How God's pursuit of us becomes the model for how we love our spouse
3. What Song of Solomon reveals about desire, hesitation, and the cost of complacency
4. Why both husband and wife are called to initiate — and what that actually looks like
5. How to stay intentional when routine tries to replace real connection

Whether you've been married two years or twenty, this conversation is a reminder that love isn't assumed — it's expressed, again and again, on purpose.

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