Drin King

Mike and I are revisiting some of our wildest drunk stories—questionable choices, bad logic, and moments that only make sense in hindsight. Nothing glamorized, just honest laughs and sober perspective.

In this episode, I’m sharing a real and honest look at what Thanksgiving was like for me this year and navigating a family gathering where drinking has always been the norm. I talk about the moments that felt easy, the ones that didn’t, and the tools I leaned on to stay grounded and sober.

I also dive into how being around family can impact us in early sobriety, the emotional hangover that can follow a big holiday, and the simple ways I’m taking care of myself now that it’s over. If you made it through the holidays sober, or if you didn’t, this episode is for you. You’re not alone.

In this episode, we dive into one of the most universal parts of early sobriety: cravings. I talk about why they happen, what they’re actually trying to tell you, and the small, realistic strategies that can help you ride them out without losing your mind. From emotional triggers to boredom to old habits that show up out of nowhere, we break down the messy truth behind urges — and how to get through them one moment at a time.

Whether you’re on day one or day one hundred, this episode is a reminder that cravings don’t mean you’re weak or failing. They’re part of the process — and you’re stronger than you think.

In this episode, Mike opens up about how drinking felt totally normal — growing up, in college, and especially around his frat brothers. It was just part of the culture… until the pandemic hit and everything changed. What started as “typical” drinking slowly became something heavier, harder to control, and harder to ignore.

Mike’s story is one so many of us relate to: the cycle of stopping, relapsing, trying again, and refusing to give up. His honesty about setbacks, shame, recovery attempts, and the moments that finally clicked is powerful, raw, and full of hope.

If you’ve ever felt like you keep starting over, this is the episode you need. Mike is proof that slipping doesn’t mean failing — and that you can always choose to begin again.

In this episode of Drin King (formerly Hot Mess Jess), I open up about the early days of sobriety — the messy, confusing, and surprisingly beautiful parts no one really prepares you for. I share practical tips that helped me get through the first few days and weeks, from managing cravings to learning how to fill your nights. Whether you’re newly sober, sober-curious, or supporting someone who is, this episode is all about finding strength and grace, in the beginning of a new chapter.

I went through he-double hockey sticks and back and now I am taking you with me. Consider it a Halloween gift. This is the story of my addiction and what lead me to rehab. Title change to come soon.

Welcome to Hot Mess Jess the podcast that dives into sobriety topics. Today we have Alex joining the pod. We dive into The Situation’s book: Reality Check, we talk about anti anxiety medications, and the mysterious Kratom.

About me, rehab, sober friends, living in New York