In this episode we sit down with Ben Meyer, Founder of Wichita Food & Booze. It starts off funny and then we ended up unpacking something a lot of us are quietly navigating — what happens when the identity you’ve been carrying your whole life… doesn’t actually fit anymore.

We get into:

We talk about:

• Redefining masculinity beyond ego, noise, and performance

• What it feels like to outgrow old versions of yourself

• Drinking culture — enjoying it without letting it run your life

• The habits we build to belong (and how to break them)

• Building real community in a digital world

• ADHD, anxiety, and channeling chaos into growth

• Why you don’t need a big audience to make an impact

• Small city culture, politics, and actually getting involved

If you’ve ever felt like you’re figuring life out in real time — this one’s for you.

Make yourself an espresso martini with Hi-Post Vodka (or don’t), pull up a chair, and let’s get into it.