Drinks and Kinks!

By Drinks and Kinks Podcast

A podcast about diving into and exploring the world of BDSM, kink, and dating. We have a drink, and have an unfiltered chat about what we've been learning and experiencing lately. We cover topics like... more

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The podcast currently has 24 episodes available.

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May 24, 2023 S2 E014 Dungeons
Senior brings us the topic of dungeons this week! We get into our weekly update and talk about the Intro to Rope Bondage class final! And we dive into first-timer experiences with home dungeons on a smaller scale vs. public party dungeons, what to bring, what to wear arriving and what to wear to feel comfortable in the dungeon area, what you might see, dungeon etiquette and monitors, sleep divorce, hygiene and pheromones, how to find a dungeon, and BDSM furniture such as St. Andrew's crosses, box stocks, Berkley Horses and more!

Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Tattoo Girl Cabernet Sauvignon!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: ⁠[email protected]⁠
Website: ⁠https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/⁠
FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
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1h 24min
May 17, 2023 S2 E013 BDSM & Mental Health
This week we get curious about what "BDSM" stands for and all it means! Senior and Bird talk about their first official BDSM scene together, and talk a little bit about the relationship road that hasn't always been easy. We also cover what some triggers for safe wording might be during a scene, how kink can be similar to EMDR therapy, some fun facts and stats about kink and de-stigmatizing kink over the last 10 years.
We have some tender moments where we talk about some of Senior's mental health journey and how it relates to kink, BDSM and being sadistic, as well as some of Bird's trauma and how kink and BDSM can help heal some wounds for both tops and bottoms. Senior has a great suggestion that we can try out products and talk about our experiences with them!

Hang on for the ride, we derail a few times just havin' a good time!

Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Adroit Theory Brewing's Now I Am Death, Destroyer of Worlds IPA!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: ⁠[email protected]⁠
Website: ⁠https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/⁠
FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
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1h 10min
May 03, 2023 S2 E012 KinkFest Spanking Scene with Special Guest: Sadistic Domme, Goddess
What does a BDSM scene actually look like? This week, we got the honor of having our first official guest on the show, and Senior joins in to recount his view of things as well!
This episode is focused on revisiting Bird's first real scene as she goes over everything with Goddess, The Sadist who topped her, and how they navigated initial negotiations, adjusting for the setting, what tools and toys were going to be used, what went right or wrong in the scene, and what aftercare looked like.
Bird also opens up about the not-so-great introduction she had into the world of BDSM with a fake dom, some of the red flags she looked past and how you can avoid some of the same mistakes she made. Even though she thought she'd vetted this person, there still was a lot of unanswered questions and things that didn't add up. How do you navigate after someone has traumatized you? Bird chose to try again, with someone much safer, and do some immersive, therapeutic, BDSM!

Cautiva leather handcuffs mentioned: https://www.shopcautiva.com/
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is Apothic Dark!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: ⁠[email protected]⁠
Website: ⁠https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/⁠
FetLife: DrinksKinksPod
Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod
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1h 6min
April 26, 2023S2 E011 - KinkFest Recap! We're back!
Now with 100% more Senior! Drinks & Kinks returns with a whole episode recapping our wild weekend at KinkFest 2023 in Portland, Oregon! Season 2 kicks off with a change in the lineup and a whole lot of amazing things we saw and learned about.
We cover what classes we took all weekend, and take a quick look into Bird's first official scene with a Domme that we affectionately call "The Sadist"! In this episode you'll hear us talk about:
Botanica Erotica: Kinky Plants for Pleasure, Pain, and Passion

When CNC Doesn't Mean Stop: The CNC Spectrum

The Opening Ceremonies Fashion Show

Night 1 in the Dungeon

BDSM and The Law

The Vendor Floor

Playing with Jealousy Without Getting Burned

Night 2 in the Dungeon and Bird's first scene

Group Sex: Lessons from a Decade of Whoredom

The Science of Fear

Building, Negotiating, and Executing a Dynamic Mindf*ck Scene

Sanctuary and Suspensions, PDX

How much Senior loves Tums
You can now look forward to new episodes every Wednesday!

Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is a lot of Water!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: [email protected]
Website: https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/
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1h 23min
February 09, 2023 Changes
Things are changing. There's going to be a little break while things are sorted and dust settles. We both would deeply appreciate some privacy at this time, and thank you for the patience and support. In the meantime, take good care of yourselves.
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2min
February 02, 2023 S1 Episode 010 - Voyeurism, Cuckolding/Cuckqueaning, Stag/Vixen
Part 3 of 3 in the Kink of the Week series: Voyeurism. We also add in the Cuckold/Cuckquean kink, and include Stag/Vixen as well!
Updates for the week include Bird's second date with "Hunter" which included making out like teenagers in the back of a minivan, and Grant's update on CuteBoy, and mending a friendship with a former throuple he was a part of.
Voyeurism can also tie into cucking and queaning, or even stagging/vixening, and Bird reveals yet another fun fact about herself, and we learn about the difference between those things. Grant talks about a guy he was sending homemade porn with a f*cking machine to, and Bird has a friend who loves his wife so much he watches her while she hooks up with strangers.
What does aftercare look like if you bring in someone for a cuck/stag or quean/vix scene? Don't forget to negotiate beforehand! Plus we talk about some super interesting videos that Grant sent to Bird!
You can look forward to some upcoming episodes where we talk about toys, and different types of sexualities!

Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink responsibly!
The drink this week is a Huckleberry/Blueberry Lemonade!
Music: How We Feel by Panama
Show Created By: Grant
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Grant & Bird
Emotional support: Clam
Contact us: [email protected]
Website: https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/

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1h 4min
January 26, 2023 S1 Episode 009 - Exhibitionism
This week Grant and Bird do part 2 the Kink of the Week series: Exhibitionism. Grant heads up this conversation because he identifies as an exhibitionist!
Grant talks a little bit about his homework he did for his list of aftercare things he loves, and Bird gives an update on "Hunter"!
We share a little bit about what forms exhibitionism might take (however it's not limited to these things). Grant introduces Bird to the world of Twitter porn. And Bird shares and embarrassing story!

Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink responsibly!
The drink this week is a Blueberry Seltzer & Blood Orange Pomegranate Seltzer!
Music: How We Feel by Panama
Show Created By: Grant
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Grant & Bird
Emotional support: Clam
Contact us: [email protected]
Website: https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/
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1h 1min
January 19, 2023 S1 Episode 008 - Porn
This week Grant and Bird kick off the Kink of the Week series for the next few weeks with part one in a set of three: Porn; Exhibitionism; Voyeurism. These all tie in together and now you get to learn what they've been learning and diving into and how these are related to each other!
Grant did his homework this week, and we get to hear about his BDSMtest.org results! Bird also shares a little bit more of her results as well.
Weekly update includes a new potential partner for Bird! Ah, the NRE is strong with this one!
All kinds of different porn is explored, be that written form, or maybe even just the traditional audio/visual. We cover a lot of the pro's and con's of the porn industry and how it may affect people, both good and bad. And we share of the more wild things we've come across! Grant also shares his high school trip to Pompeii and the early brothels in the area.
We wrap up with our first listener email, and share some really great questions we got asked. If you'd like to submit a story, or some questions for us to answer on the show, visit our website https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/ and you can use the form to submit to us (with consent of course)!

Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink responsibly!
The drink this week is a Blueberry Muffin Sour Ale & Crangerine Cider!
Music: How We Feel by Panama
Show Created By: Grant
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Grant & Bird
Emotional support: Clam
Contact us: [email protected]
Website: https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/

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1h 35min
January 12, 2023 S1 Episode 007 - Do's & Don'ts of Dating Apps and Dick Pics
Dating apps are one of the most common ways people in this day and age meet other potential mates. Some are better than others, but mostly it's a tough place to find a match (even if you're monogamous)! We cover a handful of very popular dating apps we currently use, including the ones we got banned from! But juggling apps is genuinely not easy, so if you're struggling don't worry you're not alone!
Bird shares a fun fact the genuinely takes Grant by surprise.
Dating app etiquette (or more like some great suggestions from Bird as to what is appealing in a dating profile, and what is a "hard left"). Starting with what photos to use/not use, what kinds of bio's are cringey and which ones sound appetizing, and what conversation killers to avoid!
We cover the best top 10 dating apps for BDSM and Kink people, and get into Fetlife.com (where we take some time to update and polish Grant's profile)! Grant's homework is to do the BDSMtest.org and see how he ranks for things that he's into, we highly recommend you take the test too and see what you're into as well.
What better way to tie consent and kinky website/dating apps together, than Bird's top 5 Rules for Sending Photos of Your Junk. Consent is key, baby!

Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink responsibly!
The drink this week is an X Rated Pornstar!
Music: How We Feel by Panama
Show Created By: Grant
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Grant & Bird
Emotional support: Clam
Contact us: [email protected]
Website: https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/
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1h 43min
December 29, 2022 S1 Episode 005 - Kinky Holiday Parties
We deviate from our schedule in order to talk about some fun things! Drinks this week are a twist on Bird's fav: Greyhound Spritz.
Bird goes to another party.
Grant's Erotic Christmas party.
White Elephant gift exchanges, and Grant gets a surprise from Bird.
Is there an orgy happening for New Years?
Grant updates us on the shopping trip he took to a locally-owned sex store and the books he bought: 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do, and The Ultimate Guide to BDSM.
Aftercare!
What is Figging?
Gags vs. Gagging
Sounding.
We've got some lists for you in this episode too! Grant does a "Bird Interrogation" where we learn a little bit about Tipsy Bird with 5 fun facts, and bonus: she talks about her list she made for her aftercare needs (as recommended by her therapist). And what would Dom aftercare look like? And what about a list for Polyamory Panic for when she's feeling insecure and needing some self care? All that's in there too!
Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink responsibly!
The drink this week is a Greyhound Spritz!
Music: How We Feel by Panama
Show Created By: Grant
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Grant & Bird
Emotional support: Clam
Contact us: [email protected]
Website: https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/
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1h 20min

FAQs about Drinks and Kinks!:

How many episodes does Drinks and Kinks! have?

The podcast currently has 24 episodes available.