Drop the Act

Drop the Act

By Michael CinquinoEducationSelf-Improvement
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  • The Art of Risk-Taking: Jamie Carroll on Turning Curiosity Into a Purpose-Driven Career

    Summary

    In this episode of Multi-Mastery, host Michael Cinquino engages with Emmy-nominated producer and coach Jamie Carroll, exploring the transformative power of curiosity, vulnerability, and self-trust in the creative process. They discuss the importance of great teachers, the role of external forces in personal growth, and the significance of creating safe spaces for learning. Jamie shares her unique 10K, 20K, 30K planning method, emphasizing the need for consistency and intentionality in pursuing goals. The conversation highlights the collaborative nature of filmmaking and the redefinition of leadership through empathy and excellence, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace their journey and find their bliss. In this conversation, Jamie Carroll and Michael Cinquino explore the themes of contribution, fulfillment, and the balance between passion and skill. They discuss the importance of living with purpose, the illusion of safety, and the courage required to take risks in life. Jamie shares her experiences of navigating motherhood while building a career, emphasizing the significance of relationships and the energy derived from doing what one loves. The discussion culminates in the idea that curiosity and engagement in life lead to true fulfillment.

    Takeaways

    • What's possible here?
    • Letting go of fear leads to creativity.
    • Great teachers change how you see yourself.
    • Trusting yourself is key to confidence.
    • Curiosity opens doors to new possibilities.
    • Vulnerability fosters a safe learning environment.
    • Daily intentions guide purposeful living.
    • The journey is more important than the destination.
    • Collaboration enhances creativity in filmmaking.
    • Empathy and excellence define great leadership. The question 'How can I add value?' drives personal growth.
    • Navigating the struggle between skill and enjoyment is crucial.
    • Success is not an end point; it's a continuous journey.
    • Safety can limit potential and growth.
    • Courage is essential for expanding one's life experiences.
    • Taking risks can lead to greater fulfillment.
    • Balancing career and parenthood requires compassion and structure.
    • Living with purpose energizes daily life.
    • Relationships are more important than achievements.
    • Curiosity fuels engagement and fulfillment in life.
    • Chapters

      00:00 Introduction to Multi-Mastery and Jamie Carroll

      03:07 Exploring the Question: What's Possible Here?

      06:13 The Evolution of Mindset: From Fixed to Growth

      09:03 The Importance of Trusting Yourself

      11:53 The Role of External Forces in Personal Growth

      14:56 Consistency and Persistence in Pursuing Goals

      18:00 The 10K, 20K, 30K Planning Method

      21:12 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Growth

      24:00 The Impact of Great Teachers

      27:09 Curiosity as a Driving Force

      29:46 Creating a Supportive Environment

      32:51 The Role of Empathy in Leadership

      36:08 Navigating Challenges and Embracing Change

      38:39 The Importance of Community and Collaboration

      41:53 The Journey of Starting a New Chapter

      44:33 Final Thoughts and Reflections

      51:22 The Gift of the Pandemic: Realizations and Growth

      52:52 Navigating the Balance: Skill vs. Enjoyment

      55:56 Redefining Safety: The Illusion of Comfort

      01:04:02 Taking Risks: The Leap into Motherhood and Business

      01:10:19 Living on Purpose: The Power of Fulfillment

      01:15:52 The Magic of Connection: Teaching and Learning

      01:21:32 Curiosity as a Driving Force: Lessons from Photography

      01:36:40 Lead In.mp4



      1 hr 37 min
    • The Power of Presence: Why a Strong Point of View is Essential for Success with Briana Packen O’Melveny

      Summary

      In this conversation, Briana Packen shares her journey as a multi-hyphenate artist and the challenges she faced along the way. She talks about her experience of rejection from acting school and how it affected her. Briana also discusses her training at the Maggie Flanagan Studio and the Meisner technique, emphasizing the importance of living truthfully in the moment. She highlights the significance of letting go and releasing tension in order to connect with others and be present. Briana's story serves as a reminder that success and validation come from being true to oneself. Briana Packen discusses the importance of being present and authentic in order to establish truthful connections. She emphasizes the value of releasing control and being willing to be seen. Briana shares her journey of becoming a teacher at Maggie Flanagan Studio and her work with Julia Crockett. She also talks about her successful career as a voiceover actor and the importance of stillness in her work. Briana prioritizes her children while also pursuing her creative endeavors and facilitating workshops on presence and connection.

      Keywords

      multi-hyphenate artist, rejection, acting school, journey, training, Maggie Flanagan Studio, Meisner technique, living truthfully, letting go, presence, presence, connection, authenticity, releasing control, being seen, teaching, Maggie Flanagan Studio, Julia Crockett, voiceover actor, stillness, prioritizing children, creative endeavors, workshops

      Takeaways

      • Rejection can be a powerful motivator and a catalyst for growth.
      • The Meisner technique emphasizes living truthfully in the moment and being fully present.
      • Letting go of tension and releasing control allows for genuine connection and authenticity.
      • Success and validation come from being true to oneself and embracing all aspects of one's identity. Being present and authentic is essential for establishing truthful connections.
      • Releasing control and being willing to be seen are important for personal growth and connection.
      • Stillness is a movement technique that can enhance voiceover work.
      • Prioritizing children doesn't mean sacrificing personal fulfillment and creative pursuits.
      • Facilitating workshops on presence and connection can help others be more present and connected.
      • Chapters

        00:00 Introduction and Brianna's Background

        03:08 The Importance of Being Well-Rounded

        06:00 Overcoming Rejection and Embracing Growth

        11:03 Discovering a Passion for Acting

        15:02 The Meisner Technique and the Body-Emotion Connection

        19:35 Presence and Authentic Communication

        28:18 The Power of Presence and Authenticity

        36:01 Briana's Journey in the Voiceover Industry

        41:28 Having a Point of View

        46:05 Prioritizing Children and Pursuing Creative Endeavors

        52:59 Inside the Actors Studio Questionnaire







        56 min
      • Finance with Heart: Ryan Coburn on Building Relationships Beyond Metrics

        Summary

        Ryan Colburn, a financial advisor and former sports marketer, discusses the challenges of self-promotion and the importance of building relationships in his work. He shares insights on the art of introducing oneself and the value of social proof. Ryan emphasizes the significance of combining activities that bring joy, health, and business development. He also talks about the impact of participating in Spartan races and the lessons he learned from his previous career. Ryan's journey highlights the importance of perseverance and the constant need to solve problems in order to excel. The conversation covers various topics including taking action, stepping out of comfort zones, staying engaged, and finding balance. Ryan Coburn shares his perspective on challenging oneself physically and mentally, the importance of preparation and simplification, and the value of staying accountable. He also discusses his admiration for moments of triumph and his dislike for people who lack responsibility. Ryan shares his interest in coaching a professional sports team and his aversion to being an accountant.

        Keywords

        self-promotion, relationships, business development, Spartan races, perseverance, action, comfort zone, engagement, balance, physical challenge, preparation, simplification, accountability, triumph, responsibility, coaching, profession, heaven

        Takeaways

        • Writing your own bio can be challenging because of the difficulty in balancing self-promotion and modesty.
        • Introducing someone else is easier because you can be their cheerleader without feeling inappropriate.
        • Building relationships and promoting oneself through social proof are crucial in business.
        • Combining activities that bring joy, health, and business development can lead to a more efficient and fulfilling day.
        • Participating in challenging events like Spartan races can have a transformative impact and boost confidence.
        • Perseverance and problem-solving are essential for success in any career. Taking action is essential for personal and professional growth.
        • Stepping out of comfort zones leads to progress and improvement.
        • Staying engaged and accountable is important for a fulfilling life.
        • Finding balance between work and rest is a continuous challenge.
        • Challenging oneself physically can have positive effects on mental well-being.
        • Preparation and simplification can lead to increased productivity.
        • Moments of triumph can inspire and motivate.
        • Taking responsibility for one's actions and choices is crucial.
        • Coaching a professional sports team can be a rewarding challenge.
        • Being an accountant may not be a desirable profession for some.
        • The desire to hear 'You did it' reflects a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment.
        • Chapters

          00:00 Introduction and the Challenge of Self-Promotion

          05:02 The Power of Relationships in Business

          18:11 Navigating a Non-Linear Career Path

          24:55 Transitioning to Financial Advising

          29:24 The Transformative Impact of Spartan Races

          34:25 The Importance of Relentless Pursuit

          36:55 Introduction to the Most Violent Year

          39:33 Taking Action and Embracing Challenges

          43:34 The Importance of Pushing Past Comfort

          47:51 Acting in Spite of Feeling

          55:56 Finding Joy in Challenges

          58:32 The Value of Simplification

          01:03:25 Reflection on a Life Well-Lived

          01:04:01 Lead In.mp4



            1 hr 5 min
          • Outperform and Outshine: The Communication Tactic Every Multi-Hyphenate Needs

            In this episode of Multi-Hyphenate Mastery, host Michael Cinquino delves into the secret communication tactic that can set you apart as a multi-hyphenate. Drawing from the worlds of acting and public speaking, Michael reveals how the combination of structure and spontaneity can elevate your communication skills to new heights. Whether you’re juggling multiple careers, passions, or roles, this episode will equip you with the tools to communicate your value clearly and compellingly, making you stand out in any field.

            Discover how to be both predictable in structure and unpredictable in delivery—just like the best actors on stage. Michael shares stories of legendary actresses Sarah Bernhardt and Eleonora Duse to illustrate the difference between presentational and representational communication, showing how these lessons apply to the modern multi-hyphenate. Plus, you’ll learn how to harness the power of authenticity in your interactions to truly connect with your audience, clients, or peers.

            Tune in to learn:

            • The key distinction between presentational and representational communication.

            • How to use the SCQA framework and Minto Pyramid to structure your communication.

            • The importance of being “real” and how it can make you a top 5% communicator.

            • Why unpredictability in delivery can be your secret weapon in standing out from the crowd.

            • Practical tips on how to integrate these tactics into your everyday communication.

            If you’re ready to outperform and outshine in your multi-hyphenate journey, this episode is a must-listen. Get ready to communicate with clarity, confidence, and compelling authenticity!

            [00:10] Introduction to the episode and the importance of communication for multi-hyphenates.

            [01:35] The 3C Method: Why being Competent, Clear, and Compelling is essential.

            [03:10] The analogy of actors: How great acting informs great communication.

            [06:50] The difference between Sarah Bernhardt’s presentational style and Eleonora Duse’s representational approach.

            [10:30] Applying the SCQA framework and Minto Pyramid to structure your communication.

            [13:25] The power of authenticity and why being “real” matters in modern communication.

            [17:45] How to be unpredictable in delivery while maintaining structure.

            [21:00] Practical tips for multi-hyphenates to enhance their communication skills and stand out.

            [23:15] Closing thoughts and preview of upcoming guests.

            18 min
          • So What the Heck IS a "Multi-Hyphenate"? And are YOU one?

            Summary

            Being a multi-hyphenate means embracing multiple skills, professions, or creative pursuits and integrating them into your life. It offers adaptability, innovation, fulfillment, and economic resilience. Challenges include time management, balancing multiple roles, and identity integration. To embrace your multi-hyphenate identity, identify core interests, create a cohesive personal brand, set clear goals and prioritize, network and collaborate, and embrace the beginner mindset. The future of work favors multi-hyphenates with the rise of the gig economy, remote work, and the need for lifelong learning.

            Keywords

            multi-hyphenate, skills, professions, creative pursuits, adaptability, innovation, fulfillment, economic resilience, challenges, time management, balancing roles, identity integration, embrace, future of work, gig economy, remote work, lifelong learning

            Takeaways

            • Being a multi-hyphenate means embracing multiple skills, professions, or creative pursuits and integrating them into your life.
            • Multi-hyphenates offer adaptability, innovation, fulfillment, and economic resilience.
            • Challenges of being a multi-hyphenate include time management, balancing multiple roles, and identity integration.
            • To embrace your multi-hyphenate identity, identify core interests, create a cohesive personal brand, set clear goals and prioritize, network and collaborate, and embrace the beginner mindset.
            • The future of work favors multi-hyphenates with the rise of the gig economy, remote work, and the need for lifelong learning.
            • Chapters


              00:00 Embracing the Multi-Hyphenate Lifestyle

              03:00 The Benefits of Being a Multi-Hyphenate

              05:53 Challenges of Balancing Multiple Roles

              12:04 Steps to Embrace Your Multi-Hyphenate Identity

              15:33 The Future of Work and Multi-Hyphenates

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              19 min
            • Finding the Character Within: Amy Selwyn

              Summary

              Amy Selwyn shares her journey from storytelling as a child to merging her interests in arts and business. She emphasizes the importance of authenticity and finding the character within oneself. The conversation explores the relationship between acting and real life, the power of vulnerability in communication, and the role of listening and asking questions in storytelling. Amy also discusses her favorite book, Midnight's Children by Salman Rushdie, and her curiosity-driven trip to Cuba. Amy Selwyn shares her journey into photography and the importance of embracing the beginner mindset. She emphasizes the value of allowing oneself to be a beginner and the freedom it brings. Amy also discusses the significance of setting boundaries and not being a pleaser, sharing personal experiences and lessons learned. She highlights the universal nature of storytelling and the power of playfulness in fostering creativity. Amy encourages individuals to embrace diverse interests and reject the old model of having one job, emphasizing the importance of finding purpose and joy in one's work.

              Keywords

              storytelling, authenticity, character, acting, vulnerability, communication, listening, asking questions, curiosity, Cuba, photography, beginner mindset, boundaries, pleaser, storytelling, playfulness, diverse interests, purpose, joy

              Takeaways

              • Authenticity is key in storytelling, whether in acting or real life.
              • Finding the character within oneself can help navigate challenging situations.
              • Listening and asking questions are essential skills for effective communication and storytelling.
              • Curiosity drives personal growth and exploration of new experiences. Embrace the beginner mindset and allow yourself to be a beginner in new endeavors.
              • Set boundaries and prioritize your own well-being and values.
              • Storytelling is universal and helps us make sense of the world.
              • Playfulness is essential for creativity and innovation.
              • Embrace diverse interests and reject the old model of having one job.
              • Connect with Amy here: https://www.instagram.com/amyselwynphotographer/




                1 hr 13 min
              • Episode 5 - How to Integrate with Bri White

                Bri White, a personal fashion stylist, shares her multi-hyphenate journey that combines her love for video games, cosplay, styling, and photography. She initially studied graphic design in college but changed her major due to fear of failure. After college, she discovered her passion for modeling and photography, which led her to start a blog. Brie also worked in a school for children and adults with autism, where she developed her skills in listening and providing support. During the pandemic, she realized the importance of creativity and decided to shift her styling business to focus on helping gamers and nerds feel confident and empowered through their style. Bri White discusses the importance of integration and authenticity in personal and professional life. She shares her journey of embracing her identity as a queer person and the impact it has had on her ability to connect with others. Bri emphasizes the power of creating genuine connections and building a community based on shared interests and experiences. She also highlights the role of technology in facilitating these connections, but emphasizes the importance of eventually transitioning to in-person interactions. Bri's favorite word is 'Kintsugi,' which represents the beauty in embracing our brokenness and imperfections. She also shares her least favorite word, 'failure,' and discusses her creative inspirations and aspirations.

                49 min
              • Episode 4: Embracing Adventure with Jennifer Desrosiers

                In this episode of Multi-Hyphenate Mastery, host Michael Cinquino sits down with Jennifer Desrosiers, a true multi-hyphenate and the founder of Laney & Lou, among other ventures. Jennifer shares her incredible journey from studying architectural engineering to creating a successful wellness company and opening multiple thriving businesses.

                Dive into Jennifer's story as she discusses the pivotal moments that shaped her path, the challenges she faced, and the adventures that fueled her passion. Discover how she balances creativity with a systematic approach to business and how her health journey inspired a new direction in her career. Jennifer also offers valuable insights into the importance of community, the power of adaptability, and the mindset needed to turn diverse skills into clear and compelling outcomes.

                Tune in for an inspiring conversation that explores the essence of living a multi-hyphenate life and the rewards it brings.

                Key Takeaways:

                • The intersection of engineering and creativity
                • Navigating health challenges and transforming them into opportunities
                • The importance of community and inclusivity in business
                • Practical advice for aspiring multi-hyphenates on balancing diverse roles and interests
                • Don't miss this episode filled with inspiration and practical tips for anyone looking to embrace a life of passion, purpose, and adaptability.

                  Chapters:

                  00:00 Introduction to Multi-Hyphenate Mastery and Guest Jennifer DeRosiers

                  00:34 The Importance of Career Exploration and Embracing Multiple Skills

                  12:39 Taking the Leap: Starting Laney and Lou

                  22:41 Following Childhood Dreams and Expanding the Brand

                  28:30 Introduction to Altitude: A Hospitality Company with Coaching and Consulting Services

                  29:36 Managing Multiple Businesses and the Importance of Delegation

                  32:55 The Destructive Power of Being Too Creative and Fast-Moving

                  36:36 Embracing Adventure: Expecting the Unexpected

                  42:43 Creating Memorable Moments: The Power of 'Moments of Truth'

                  45:02 Knowing Your Strengths: Focusing on What You're Good At

                  Connect with Jennifer:

                  https://www.instagram.com/jenniferldesrosiers

                  https://www.jenniferdesrosiers.com/

                  47 min
                • Why Loneliness is a Killer (and now not to be that way)

                  Summary

                  Loneliness is a significant issue for multi-hyphenates, with statistics showing that it raises the risk of premature death, heart disease, stroke, mental health issues, cognitive decline, and hospitalization. The podcast aims to create a community where multi-hyphenates can feel less alone. Embracing multiple interests as a multi-hyphenate is an advantage, as it allows for creativity and innovation. Being a multi-hyphenate can also offer financial rewards and job security in a rapidly changing job market. It is important for multi-hyphenates to stay curious, flexible, and constantly upskill to remain relevant and useful. The key question to ask is how can one's multiple talents and passions be useful to others in solving a problem?


                  Keywords

                  loneliness, multi-hyphenate, advantages, creativity, innovation, financial rewards, job security, upskilling, usefulness


                  Takeaways

                  Loneliness is a significant issue for multi-hyphenates, with various health risks associated with it.

                  Embracing multiple interests as a multi-hyphenate can lead to creativity and innovation.

                  Being a multi-hyphenate can offer financial rewards and job security in a changing job market.

                  Staying curious, flexible, and constantly upskilling is crucial for multi-hyphenates to remain relevant.

                  The key question is how one's multiple talents and passions can be useful to others in solving a problem.


                  Chapters

                  00:00

                  The Impact of Loneliness

                  07:03

                  Advantages of Embracing a Multi-Hyphenate Lifestyle

                  10:45

                  The Importance of Creating a Community

                  12:06

                  Staying Curious, Flexible, and Useful

                  15:30

                  Lead In.mp4

                  16 min
                • Beware The Contraction of Logic - A Brief Tribute to Kelly Kimball

                  Summary

                  In this episode, Michael Cinquino pays tribute to his acting teacher, Kelly Kimball, who passed away a year ago. He shares how Kelly's advice altered the course of his life and talks about the transformative exercises he learned at Kimball Studio. Michael also discusses his journey into teaching and the impact Kelly had on his decision. He emphasizes the importance of embracing the unknown and not letting logic limit our possibilities.


                  Keywords

                  acting, teaching, Kelly Kimball, Kimball Studio, auditioning, camera, one minutes, teaching career, communication, business


                  Takeaways

                  • Kelly Kimball's advice can have a profound impact on our lives.
                  • The exercises at Kimball Studio, such as auditioning for the camera and one minutes, are transformative for actors.
                  • Embrace the unknown and don't let logic limit your possibilities.
                  • Teaching can be a fulfilling career path for actors.
                  • Effective communication skills are essential in both acting and business.

                  • Chapters

                    00:00 Introduction to Multi-Hyphenate Mastery

                    00:09 Remembering Kelly Kimball

                    02:51 The Transformative Power of Auditioning for the Camera

                    06:32 Kelly's Dedication to Teaching

                    07:43 Trusting Your Instincts: Seeking Multiple Opinions

                    09:56 Don't Refuse the Call: Pursuing Your Passions

                    13:11 Embracing the Unknown: Beware the Contraction of Logic








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                  About Drop the Act

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                  Drop the Act is a podcast about presence in a performative world.