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Drop the Hanky (and Survive Rejection) With Kait Warman - 004


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This one is about so much more than dating.

Rejection is never fun for any of us, yet we all face it. Whether we've been rejected by friends, employers, family members, or in romantic relationships—we've all been there.

My guest Kait Warman literally wrote the book on it.

It's time to learn how to turn it into a growth opportunity, one we can say "thank you" for.

Kait and I talk about dating in a real, candid, and relatable way. Dating for the Christian single is hard, but it should be FUN, too! To this end, she gives practical advice for those "ready to mingle" right now. Are you suffering from VBS? Do you know how to "drop the hanky"? When do you "become exclusive"? We're answering all of this and more! Kait also suggests you segment the relationship cycle further beyond just single, dating, and married by adding in two more phases. And bonus: we both share a dating diary mishap that will make you LOL.

Whether you're in the dating scene right now or not, this is a must-listen. You'll be able to encourage a friend who's dating, or, you'll be ready for the next learning opportunity in your own life by applying these beliefs about rejection to your next experience.

Grab your copy (and one to gift!) of her book Thank You For Rejecting Me here!

Kait Warman is an inspirational speaker, a relationship coach, and the host of The Heart of Dating podcast. She helps thousands of men and women on their journeys through the conversations on her podcast, social media platforms, one-on-one relationship coaching, and online courses. She lives in the LA area and loves sunshine, walks, Jesus, and listening to Celine Dion. Follow her on Instagram!


Here are the other books Kait mentioned on the episode:
How To Get A Date Worth Keeping: Be Dating In Six Months Or Your Money Back by Dr. Cloud
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.

Word of the show:
Chindwag [CHIN-wag]
1. A chat.

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