In this raw, unfiltered episode of Conscious Dominance, Eric and Rachael dive deep into one of the most misunderstood aspects of masculine energy - the beast mode that lies dormant in many men. Why can't some men access their primal instincts? What blocks the killer energy that creates profound polarity and attraction? Through vulnerable conversation and personal insights, they explore how integrated darkness becomes a source of power rather than shame. This episode traverses the delicate balance between animal s/xuality and conscious containment, revealing how feminine hosting creates the sacred container for masculine expression. For those seeking to understand the shadow aspects of s/xuality and relationship dynamics, this conversation illuminates the path toward embodied wholeness where both tenderness and ferocity coexist.

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Rachael

Fondly known as a sensory-sommelier and catalytic-conversationalist, Rachael Dunville works globally as an avant-garde intimacy artist and movement muse at her acclaimed company AEROSHA, founded in 2008.

Schedule a 1:1 session with Rachael here: https://aerosha.as.me/schedule/c588dcc1/appointment/11783628/calendar/2143007?appointmentTypeIds[]=11783628

Learn more about Rachael & AEROSHA on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aerosha/

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this thought-provoking episode of Conscious Dominance, Eric explores the concept of "embracing the suck" within dominant/submissive relationships, introducing his Dynamic Sexual Relationship Expansion (DSRX) methodology. He challenges traditional DS dynamics by advocating for a container that allows feminine expression and expansion rather than control or suppression. Eric discusses how true dominance requires masculine ego death while encouraging authentic feminine voice. The episode culminates with eight powerful reflection questions that invite listeners to examine their own relationship patterns:

1. Where do I feel the urge to control rather than host?
2. When triggered, can I see this as an opportunity for ego death and growth?
3. How might I be suppressing my own truth or encouraging my partner to suppress her truth or their truth?
4. What pattern of self silencing and self betrayal do I recognize in myself or my partner?
5. How can I create a container that allows for expansion rather than restriction?
6. Where do I need to grow up to hold space for my partner's full expression?
7. Am I willing to feel like hell sometimes as a part of this growth process?
8. How can I get the tools to hold myself and alchemize my hell into love?

Are you ready to transform your relationship through conscious dominance and true polarity?Connect with Eric and Rachel today through the links provided and begin your journey toward relationship mastery.

About Conscious Dominance

CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE PODCAST began as a candid weekly conversation between two friends, Eric and Andrew, exploring what it means to lead with integrity in long-term, loving relationships. Over time, it evolved into a deeper inquiry—one that unravels the nuances of inner dominance, self-mastery, and the craft of consciousness.

The podcast continues to evolve as Eric welcomes new dialogues from guests offering practical wisdom on love, leadership, service, and connection—guiding you toward unwavering presence and self-trust. Join our growing community as we navigate the art of Conscious Dominance.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

About Andrew

You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.

Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.

In this raw, explorative episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric reveals the transformative power of three words women truly crave: "I got you." Beyond empty promises, these words demand embodied truth—a masculine capacity to anticipate rather than merely react. The invisible burden women carry creates relationship imbalance, where married men thrive while women burn out. This episode offers actionable wisdom on creating the container for genuine feminine surrender. The path demands attunement to her nervous system, mastery of transitions, and unwavering presence that holds space without defensiveness. Are you ready to develop the situational awareness and emotional competence that transforms these words from hollow promise to lived reality?

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Andrew

You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.

Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this paradigm-shifting episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric dismantles the illusion that dominance means control over others, revealing instead a powerful truth: true masculine leadership emerges through the art of hosting. Drawing from Japanese culture, Tommy Shelby's penetrative presence, and high-end hospitality, he illuminates how consciously holding space for others creates loyalty no force ever could. Are you still approaching power as dominance rather than service? Discover why the most powerful men aren't those who demand attention but those who masterfully anticipate needs, read subtle cues, and take complete responsibility for the experience of those in their care—creating a magnetic field of trust few can resist.

About Conscious Dominance

CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE PODCAST began as a candid weekly conversation between two friends, Eric and Andrew, exploring what it means to lead with integrity in long-term, loving relationships. Over time, it evolved into a deeper inquiry—one that unravels the nuances of inner dominance, self-mastery, and the craft of consciousness.

The podcast continues to evolve as Eric welcomes new dialogues from guests offering practical wisdom on love, leadership, service, and connection—guiding you toward unwavering presence and self-trust. Join our growing community as we navigate the art of Conscious Dominance.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

About Andrew

You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.

Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.

In this episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric reveals the foundational principle that separates conscious leaders from reactive beings: mastering the space between stimulus and response. Drawing from Viktor Frankl's timeless wisdom, Eric guides you through the craft of emotional mastery—a practice essential for every man committed to embodied presence and relationship mastery. He shares practical insights and techniques, including breathing exercises, changing settings, and naming emotions, to transform triggered moments into opportunities for growth. The most profound journey isn't outward—it's mastering your inner dominance. This episode offers practical wisdom for those ready to take complete responsibility for their emotional landscape and transform relationships through intentional living. He also introduces resources like Aerosha's "Mental Mudroom" and his free Reactive Reset, offering 10 reset practices.

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric confronts the invisible undercurrent destroying relationships: men's fear of embarrassment colliding with women's need for safety. Recording in the raw aftermath of his own emotional trigger with Rachael, he unveils how masculine anger masks deeper shame while feminine expression emerges from a perpetual state of emergency response. The breakthrough revelation? Men avoid situations where they might appear incompetent while women develop competence purely to ensure safety. Eric introduces his transformative "emergency room doctor" approach, challenging men to embody the four essential C's—Competence, Confidence, Context, and Clarity—while remaining an unshakable presence during feminine emotional storms.

Grab a free copy of Eric's Reactive Reset—a guide offering men actionable tools to reclaim calm and presence when emotions start to take over.

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric and Andrew discuss the importance of authenticity in dominance and submission relationships. They explore how many people feel pressured to conform to stereotypical BDSM roles rather than developing authentic power dynamics that truly reflect their values and personalities.

The conversation delves into how true DS relationships aren't about controlling outward appearances or forcing stereotypical dynamics, but rather building deep trust, vulnerability, and mutual respect. Learn how to navigate challenges in power dynamics when both partners have strong personalities and professional ambitions. This episode offers valuable insights for those seeking to develop conscious dominance beyond the stereotypes, focusing on integrity, authenticity, and the courage to question your own premises about what dominance and submission can look like in a real, loving relationship.

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Andrew

You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.

Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this powerful, solo episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric confronts the shadow side of masculine sexuality—how we unconsciously use maintenance sex to medicate emotional wounds rather than face our loneliness directly. He challenges men to examine the water they swim in: Are you using your partner as emotional comfort without awareness? The path forward demands radical honesty. This isn't just about better sex—it's about becoming the architect of your relational reality instead of its unconscious prisoner.

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Andrew

You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.

Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this powerful episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric and Andrew unpack the six foundational pillars that transform conventional dominance into conscious leadership: accountability (taking radical ownership of your reality), valor (courage infused with love), integrity (alignment between values and actions), sensitivity (honoring rather than armoring your wounds), presence (the ability for her to feel you feeling her), and regeneration (alchemizing life's challenges into growth). The conversation reveals a profound truth: true dominance isn't about controlling others but mastering yourself.

About Conscious Dominance

The Conscious Dominance podcast was born from weekly conversations between two friends, Andrew & Eric.

Every week, we would connect and talk about the ways that our roles as Dominants in long term, loving Dominant/submissive relationships were calling us to higher integrity, and demanding the absolute best from each of us as men. And in those conversations, we realized how much other men might benefit from being let in on these conversations. So we started recording them for you.

About Andrew

You can learn more about Andrew and his work at https://infinitedevotion.com, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man by clicking here.

Andrew & Dawn also host the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of their D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube or by clicking here.

About Eric

Eric's work as a coach, astrologer, and modern day mystic supports men in their embodiment and building their deep inner strength. You can find more about Eric's work through the Elemental Arts Initiative at https://elementalartsinitiative.com .

And together with his long term partner and submissive Rachael runs Aerosha, teaching men and women to heal, sustain, and integrate themselves in sustainable and lasting ways. Aerosha can be found at https://aerosha.com.

In this episode of CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE, Eric & Andrew discuss the final three pillars of conscious dominance: presence, sensitivity, and regeneration. These receptive pillars build upon the previously discussed foundations of integrity, non-reactivity, and accountability. Through practical examples, they illustrate how these principles manifest in real relationships. The conversation concludes with the core message that the goal isn't to perfect these principles but to live authentically and experience life fully rather than trying to figure it all out.

About Conscious Dominance

CONSCIOUS DOMINANCE PODCAST began as a candid weekly conversation between two friends, Eric and Andrew, exploring what it means to lead with integrity in long-term, loving relationships. Over time, it evolved into a deeper inquiry—one that unravels the nuances of inner dominance, self-mastery, and the craft of consciousness.

The podcast continues to evolve as Eric welcomes new dialogues from guests offering practical wisdom on love, leadership, service, and connection—guiding you toward unwavering presence and self-trust. Join our growing community as we navigate the art of Conscious Dominance.

About Andrew

Learn more about Andrew and his work at Infinite Devotion, including his flagship course, Becoming A Dominant Man which walks men through a 12 step process to embodying a deep inner Dominance that he can carry through all parts of his life. Find more about Becoming a Dominant Man.

See all of Andrew & Dawn's courses and offerings at their online storefront.

Andrew also hosts the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast together, exploring the depths of his D/s marriage. You can find Dom Sub Devotion online or on Spotify, Apple, or any other Podcasting platform!

About Eric

Eric offers 1:1 coaching for men, guiding them to develop unyielding self-trust and skillful leadership through personalized support and transformative integration practices. 

Grab a free copy of Eric's Reactive Reset—a guide offering men actionable tools to reclaim calm and presence when emotions start to take over.

Together with his partner Rachael, Eric explores the dynamics of integrated dominance and wholistic surrender through their work at Aerosha. The heart of his approach is a regenerative model yielding profound personal and relational rewards by becoming an alchemist of emotional processing and an artist of expression.  Learn more.

Check out their "Mental Mudroom" course, designed for those feeling reactive, unclear, disconnected, or stuck in dissatisfaction. Discover a biodynamic approach that prunes unhelpful habits, replacing them with emotional clarity and tangible tools for practical relief. Learn more here.