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In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla talk about the low blows that can happen in an argument between couples. When we know all the ins and outs of someone, it is easy to go for the jugular to get the quick results. Knowing what is off limits and knowing what triggers you can bring peace more rapidly to an otherwise hotbed of discontent. When a simple conversation goes ugly, look for the underlying problem. There is something else there and the most natural person to blame is your spouse.

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Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life.

We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living.

We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now.

From business to personal, the DO THE WORK podcast covers it all.

To learn more visit www.dothework.com

In this episode of Do the Work, Carla would like to dedicate this Podcast to her Daughters. She has created a lot of content for her daughters their whole lives, by her actions. Never apologize for being a powerful woman, never submit to a man; speak for other women and be their backbones. There are thousands of men who try to keep her down and the number of women who fucking hate her; double that, and that's how many people love Carla. There are a lot of people who will not like you, but keep creating; they aren't ready for you, just like they weren't ready for Carla. When you doubt and question yourself read everything that was said about your Mom and what she rose above. Don't fear change, because change is beautiful. Go out there and lead and follow the example. This message is for every woman; what are you leaving behind for your daughters and other women? Stop believing you need a man to create, be a voice in this world and go up against the man; this is not his world. Let your fire explode! _______________________________

Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life.

We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living.

We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now.

From business to personal, the DO THE WORK podcast covers it all.

To learn more visit www.dothework.com

In this episode of Do The Work, Az and Carla have discovered their growth not just as individuals but as parents. Changing the patterns that you blame on others for your finances, your health, and your business is crucial to your success as a person and a parent. Giving your kids the tools to identify what will trigger them and give them the permission and the tools to overcome it. Whether you are going for something big, it's what we decide to go through at that moment, and asking yourself the right questions will propel you where you are destined to be. Passing your growth onto the next generation is your responsibility.; take control of your thoughts and own them.

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Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life.

We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living.

We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now.

From business to personal, the DO THE WORK podcast covers it all.

To learn more visit www.dothework.com

In this episode of Do the Work, Az and Carla the couple share with their listeners about the ups and downs of being in business with your spouse. Roles at home don't necessarily carry over into the workplace, and vice versa. Setting firm boundaries and clear guidelines won't make things perfect but will push you forward towards success. Treat your spouse like an equal to give them the confidence to show up like a boss. You will never have a more loyal and honest person to have your back.

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Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life.

We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living.

We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now.

From business to personal, the DO THE WORK podcast covers it all.

To learn more visit www.dothework.com

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla discuss how when your spouse feels down, you should also. Or should you? Trying to entice your partner into an argument when you are not up to par, is just a form of sabotage. Recognizing that your spouse is being triggered by something and stepping back is a form of growth. When you do this you will be able to connect in your marriage at a deeper level. ________________________________

Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life.

We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living.

We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now.

From business to personal, the DO THE WORK podcast covers it all.

To learn more visit www.dothework.com

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla discuss how entitlement in your relationship can lead to conflict; Spending your time trying to figure out what may be bothering your spouse, when all they need is space is a slippery slope. Give your partner that space to figure out what is triggering them, instead of mirroring their anger. When you step back, the real trigger will disappear and so will the target on your head. _______________________________

Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life.

We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living.

We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now.

From business to personal, the DO THE WORK podcast covers it all.

To learn more visit www.dothework.com

In this episode of Do the Work, Carla addresses how parenting is hard, and judgemental; People are always shaming other parents. The pressure of the perfect first day social media post, kids perfectly dressed standing in front of a chalkboard announcing the excitement of the day. The reality; juggling the house, job, school shopping,doctors appointments, figuring out the scheduling challenges;the hustle getting ready for school. Don't judge a parent that works thinking they are only in 50%, thinking you are better because you stay home and have it all going on. Don't assume that because there are 2 parents in the home, the parent running around has a partner, and helper. Doesn't make either parent bad, we are all just facing challenges parents do; but tend to always fall on one parent, whether they work or not. That working parent is already dealing with the guilt of having a career; they don't need the struggle of your judgement. Parenting is hard, but it's worth it; don't be ashamed of your reality. ________________________________

Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life.

We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living.

We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now.

From business to personal, the DO THE WORK podcast covers it all.

To learn more visit www.dothework.com

In this episode of Do The Work, AZ and Carla are in the studio discussing Trolling. A recent run-in with an internet troll has given Carla the ability to exercise her power and show that you shouldn't mess with a strong woman. If you are obsessed with bringing others down, expending all of your energy on negativity, you risk running into that individual who will stop you in your tracks. Focus your time and effort on fixing your insecurities and issues, and keep your fucking opinions to yourself. Don't give others the satisfaction of drawing you down to their level. Stop suppressing, delaying and looking for acceptance. Steamroll that shit and move forward.

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Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life.

We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living.

We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now.

From business to personal, the DO THE WORK podcast covers it all.

To learn more visit www.dothework.com

In this episode of Do the Work, Carla is solo in the studio and ready to get started. Shame is conditioned and comes out from somewhere in our lives; It overtakes us. Shame caused Carla to be hateful, because of jealousy, and comparison; we create the stories of shame. We show up this way in our relationship and our business because we cannot overcome shame. Why do you feel shame? Are you asking yourself the powerful questions? Can you feel the success? Are you living in the space that was created by shame? You need to dig deep, deep enough to find the source; quit creating the stories in your head to validate the shame. Free yourself, gain power and feel amazing by releasing yourself from everything that is stopping you from being you.

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Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life.

We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living.

We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now.

From business to personal, the DO THE WORK podcast covers it all.

To learn more visit www.dothework.com

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla discuss how significant changes are coming their way and to this podcast. Although being pumped up for what is happening, they need not get overwhelmed and focus on the small tasks each day. Putting in the reps every day has put them where they are. Looking back at where they were, fuels them forward to be where they want to be.

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Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now. From business to personal, the DO THE WORK podcast covers it all. To learn more visit www.dothework.com