Episode Title: Session 9 – The Roots and the Branches: Honoring the Past, Choosing the Future

This guided meditation brings you into a powerful metaphor from Session 9: you are the tree. Your roots—memories, people, and patterns—stretch deep into the past. Some are twisted or broken. Some were planted in pain. And while you didn’t choose the soil, you do shape the branches.

This episode supports the group’s ongoing work of “reconstructing the scene,” while expanding the frame beyond a single moment. You’ll be invited to visualize a younger version of yourself—the one who first learned fear, who watched without power. You’ll offer him a message of validation and renewal: “You were doing your best. But we’re going to grow something new.”

Session 9 is about context, compassion, and the quiet power of choosing a new direction. Your roots matter—but they do not define you. With each breath and branch, you claim agency. You begin to grow, on purpose.

Key take-aways

• Early experiences form deep roots, but you control the direction of your growth.
• Acknowledging your younger self creates space for healing, not blame.
• Visualizing renewal affirms that change is not just possible—it’s already happening.
• The future is shaped not by your soil, but by your reach.

Guided Meditation Text:
“Breathe in.
Hold.
Let it go.
Now imagine a tree.
You are the tree.
Your roots stretch back—deep into the past.
Into memories.
Into people.
Into patterns.
Some of those roots are tangled.
Some are broken.
Some were planted in pain.
You didn’t choose the soil.
But your branches…
they’re yours.
You get to shape how they grow.
You get to decide whether they reach for the light…
or turn back in on themselves.
Now picture a younger version of yourself—
the boy who first learned fear.
The one who watched it all unfold.
Go to him.
Say,
I see you.
You were doing your best.
But we’re going to grow something new.
The past matters.
But it does not define you.
Your branches are reaching up now—
new direction,
new growth,
new life.
And you’re the one making it happen.”

Episode Title: Session 8 – Walking in Her Shoes: The Felt Practice of Empathy

This guided meditation invites listeners to take one of the most vital—and vulnerable—steps in the change process: imagining the experience of the person they hurt. In alignment with Session 8’s focus on reconstructing the scene and building empathy, “Walking in Her Shoes” creates a quiet, embodied space where awareness replaces defensiveness.

There’s no need to relive every detail, no need to punish yourself. Instead, you’re guided to picture the other person’s face. Recall their silence, their body language, their emotional state. Were they afraid? Sad? Confused? What message did your actions send—even unintentionally?

This is not a meditation about guilt. It’s about growth through understanding. And from that understanding, a new emotional current can take root: I see what I did. I care about the harm it caused. And I want to be someone who never does it again. That’s empathy—not as a concept, but as a felt experience.

Key take-aways

• Empathy begins by acknowledging the emotional impact of your actions.
• You don’t need certainty—your body remembers enough to understand.
• Real compassion grows from presence, not punishment.
• Feeling the other person’s experience is a powerful step toward repair.

Guided Meditation Text:
“Get comfortable.
Let the breath settle in.
Nothing to fix right now.
Just awareness.
And now…
imagine their face.
The person you hurt.
The person who was there in the moment.
You don’t have to relive everything.
But just… see them.
What were they feeling?
You might not know for sure.
But your body remembers things.
Their eyes.
Their silence.
Their tension.
Were they afraid?
Confused?
Sad?
What message did your actions send—
even if you didn’t mean it?
This isn’t about guilt.
Or punishment.
It’s about understanding.
And when you understand…
something shifts.
A space opens.
And in that space, something new can grow.
Compassion.
The kind that says:
I see what I did.
I care about the harm it caused.
And I want to be someone who never does it again.
Feel that in your body.
Not forced.
Just… present.
That is empathy.
And it’s how we begin to make things right.”

Episode Title: Session 7 – Facing the Mirror: The Beginning of Doing Better

This meditation invites you into stillness—not to escape—but to gently face what you’ve avoided. In step with Session 7’s work on cognitive interventions, “Facing the Mirror” guides you through a felt process of honest reflection. You won’t be asked to relive past harm, but to observe it—with clarity, not shame.

As you visualize a mirror—not for your face, but for a moment—you’re asked to see what happened. Not the excuses. Not the spin. Just the truth. And then, the impact. What they felt. What you felt. The goal isn’t guilt—it’s understanding. Because growth requires awareness, and healing begins where avoidance ends.

This is the core of cognitive restructuring: the moment you say “I see it now… I’m not running” is the moment new beliefs and behaviors can begin to form. Like all real brain change, it starts with honesty—and the courage to stay with what’s real, without turning away.

Key take-aways

• Cognitive change begins by clearly seeing a moment—without excuses or distortion.
• Understanding impact (on self and others) is a gateway to empathy and accountability.
• Honesty is not punishment—it’s a path to healing and growth.
• This moment of seeing is not an end, but a beginning.

Guided Meditation Text:
“Close your eyes.
Or just let the world fade back for a few minutes.
Let the body find stillness,
even if the heart is stirring.
Now imagine… a mirror.
But this isn’t a mirror for your face.
It’s a mirror for a moment.
One you’ve been trying not to look at.
One you might wish didn’t happen.
And yet… here you are.
You don’t have to relive it.
Just observe it.
See what happened.
Not the excuses.
Not the justifications.
Just the truth.
And now…
See the impact.
What they felt.
What you felt.
Not to punish yourself.
But to understand.
You can’t heal what you won’t face.
And you can’t grow from what you keep hiding from.
So breathe.
And say silently to yourself:
I see it now.
I’m not running.
And that means I can start to change.
This moment…
is not the end.
It’s the beginning of doing better.”

Episode Title: Session 6 – The River of Your Thoughts

With soft river sounds and foglike focus, this guided meditation invites you to step back from the noise of your thoughts and sit—quietly—on the riverbank. In harmony with Session 6, which introduces stress management and cognitive awareness, you’ll practice the foundational skill of observing your internal narratives without reacting to them.

As the river of thoughts flows—“She doesn’t care,” “I’m not enough,” “They’re out to get me”—you learn that you don’t have to jump in. You don’t have to believe every splash. Instead, you notice: thoughts are not facts—they’re habits. This insight, embedded in calm imagery and Milton Erickson–style phrasing, trains the brain to separate feeling from automatic reaction.

By the final breath, the message is clear: You’re not the river. You’re the one watching. And that awareness—choosing which story to follow and which to let float by—is a powerful first step in managing stress, de-escalating anger, and shifting internal narratives before they turn into external harm.

Key take-aways

• Thoughts are not truths—they’re patterns that can be observed and released.
• Mindful awareness interrupts cognitive distortions before they fuel reaction.
• Stress relief begins by stepping back from the mental river, not swimming in it.
• You’re free to choose the story you believe—and the path it leads you toward.

Guided Meditation – “The River of Your Thoughts”

Close your eyes if you want.
Or just let them soften like fog over water.

Session 5 – Cooling the System: HALT and Nervous-System Reset

Sink into slow ambient tones and let shoulders drop as we guide you through the Milton-Erickson–style “Cooling the System” meditation. The script uses a simple flame-turning metaphor to embody Session 5’s lesson: stress heats the nervous system degree by degree until we boil over—unless we pause and HALT. In DV Brain Change, HALT stands for Hungry, Anxious, Lonely, Tired—four internal states that sharply raise the odds of anger and aggression .

During the meditation you’ll scan your body for each HALT signal and reframe meeting those needs as wisdom, not weakness. Every slow inhale is “a hand turning down the knob,” activating the parasympathetic response and softening muscles, thoughts, and fight-ready chemistry. This practice dovetails with the curriculum’s later stress-management module, teaching that self-care is a frontline violence-prevention skill Second Edition Brain Ch…Second Edition Brain Ch…. By the closing silence you’ll hold a kinder truth: needing rest and care is simply human—and each breath makes you a calmer one.

Key take-aways

• HALT check-ins expose silent triggers before they escalate.
• Breath-led relaxation down-regulates the fight/flight system.
• Addressing basic needs is strength, not weakness.
• Repeating the HALT pause builds a sustainable path to self-regulation and violence prevention.

Guided Meditation – “Cooling the System”

Close your eyes.
Or just let them get heavy.
Let your shoulders… drop.

Episode Title: Session 4 – Brain Change Prep: "I Am Rewiring"

With ambient tones drifting from alpha into theta, this meditation guides you straight into the electrical heart of Session 4—brain change by deliberate practice. Eyes soft, breath slow, you’ll visualize two trails inside your mind’s landscape. One is the familiar track of reflex—anger → explosion, shame → shutdown. The other is a barely visible footpath that whispers, pause… breathe… listen.  Each intentional step down this new route thickens fresh neural wiring while the old circuitry begins to fade—exactly the “build–improve–expand” model introduced in the curriculum’s brain-change plan.

Stars blink on as synapses light, showing that rewiring isn’t a theory but a felt reality you create through repetition. By the closing silence you’ll hold a settling truth: “I am not broken. I am rewiring.” This embodied insight fuels the personalized brain-change plans you’ll draft and present in upcoming sessions .

Key take-aways

• Visualization helps you sense new neural paths forming in real time.
• Repetition—not perfection—strengthens the “pause-and-breathe” circuit.
• Each trial walk down the fresh path weakens the reflexive, reactive trail.
• The mantra “I am rewiring” reframes practice as self-empowerment, preparing you to craft and commit to your individualized brain-change plan.

Episode Title: Session 3 – Changing What you Do

Description
Sink the shoulders, loosen the jaw, let breathing find its own tempo—then picture a fork in the road. One track is the worn‑in route of old reactions; the other is an unmapped trail that begins with a single, different move. This meditation embodies Session 3’s theme: lasting change is behavioral and begins the moment you do one thing differently. In the silence after a trigger you might pause, breathe, walk away, or speak new words—any small departure from habit is the first stone in a fresh path ​
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You don’t have to be convinced the new way will work; belief can come later. What matters is trying. Each repetition strengthens a new neural groove, and a series of grooves becomes your new road. By the final breath you’ll realize that just by sitting here—not reacting—you’re already on that path, and for today that is enough.

Key take‑aways

• Change starts with one consciously different action in the heat of a trigger.
• Repetition of that single choice builds a durable behavioral pathway.
• You don’t need full confidence to start walking; willingness is sufficient.
• Small pauses (a breath, a walk, a silent count) are powerful first moves toward non‑violence.

Join us as we practice the first footsteps of behavioral transformation—because every safer life begins with one different step.

Episode Title: Session 2 – Taking 100% Responsibility for What You Did and Are Doing Now

Description
This session invites you into a slow‑tide breath and a mirror that shows only one thing: your own behavior. With eyes closed or softly focused, you’ll notice there’s nothing to fix, no one else to blame—just the honest image of your choices. The purpose is simple: trade denial for clarity and feel the instant power return when you whisper, “This is mine.”

As the meditation guides you, each exhale releases the urge to explain, justify, or point fingers. Each inhale anchors a new truth—I am responsible, and that responsibility is the beginning of freedom. By the final breath the mantra settles into bone‑deep resolve: “I can’t change what I won’t own. Now I’m owning it, and change begins.”

Key take‑aways

• Responsibility starts with honest seeing—no blame, just clarity.
• Focusing solely on your own actions reclaims personal power.
• Breath becomes the bridge from self‑judgment to self‑ownership.
• The phrase “I can’t change what I won’t own” transforms accountability into freedom.

Join us for this mirror‑breath practice and step into the first, essential movement of brain change: full, exact ownership of your story.

Episode 1: Orientation – What Is DV Brain Change?

Welcome to the DV Brain Change Meditation Podcast Series.

In this special orientation episode, therapist and creator Glenn Ostlund introduces the purpose, structure, and personal philosophy behind this unique fusion of neuroscience, sound therapy, and guided meditation. Drawing from the Brain Change curriculum by Ronald and Patricia Potter-Efron, this series offers supportive meditations for individuals working through the challenges of behavioral transformation—especially in the context of domestic violence treatment.

But while the series is designed with court-mandated DV groups in mind, the tools and insights offered here—about brain plasticity, emotional regulation, and the healing power of intentional attention—can benefit anyone. Whether you're working through anger, anxiety, trauma, or just looking for a new way to reconnect with your mind and body, these meditations invite you into a deeply personal and potentially transformative experience.

Glenn shares how his background in folklore and mythology, combined with training in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), hypnotherapy, and a deep dive into binaural beat technology, inspired the layered, experiential style of these meditations. You’ll hear about the therapeutic value of liminal space, neural entrainment, and the power of self-awareness. You'll also get a taste of the light-hearted tone that runs through this series (including a little tribute to goat cheese).

Most episodes that follow will be meditations only—but this one sets the stage.

Informed Consent: Please Read Before Listening

This podcast contains guided meditations that incorporate binaural audio beats, stereo panning, and hypnotic language patterns designed to promote relaxation, focus, and nervous system regulation. These meditations are intended to support—not replace—professional treatment or mental health care.

Do not listen while driving, operating machinery, or performing tasks that require your full attention.

These audio experiences may induce deep states of focus, drowsiness, or light trance. Use headphones for best effect.

Individual responses vary. Some listeners may find the layered audio or tones distracting or uncomfortable at first—this is normal. Please listen at a comfortable volume, take breaks as needed, and consult a healthcare professional if you have any medical or neurological conditions that may be affected by auditory stimulation.

Ready to begin?

Put on your headphones.
Find a quiet space.
Let your breath settle.
And allow yourself to explore what it feels like to change your brain—from the inside out.