Ezekiel 25–30: When Success Produces Pride | A Bible Study for Christian Moms
What happens when talent, success, beauty, wealth, and achievement begin producing pride instead of praise?
In today's episode of The Dwelling Place Bible Podcast for Busy Moms, Stephanie Hickox continues through the chronological Bible reading plan in Ezekiel chapters 25–30. As God turns His attention from judging Jerusalem to judging the surrounding nations, one theme becomes impossible to miss:
God opposes the proud and gives grace to the humble.
Moab, Ammon, Edom, Philistia, Tyre, Sidon, and Egypt each experienced God's judgment for their rebellion, arrogance, violence, idolatry, or mistreatment of His people. Many of these nations were powerful, wealthy, influential, and strategically positioned—but their strength became a source of pride.
And that raises an important question for Christian parents:
Are we teaching our children to pursue greatness—or to glorify God with whatever gifts He has given them?
As moms, we naturally want our children to succeed. We celebrate their accomplishments, cheer them on in sports and academics, and want them to use their God-given abilities. But what if an opportunity that looks like success is quietly producing self-reliance, pride, or a love of worldly recognition?
Ezekiel reminds us that what matters most isn't how high our children climb.
It's who sits on the throne of their hearts when they get there.
In This Episode, We'll Study:
- Ezekiel 25: God's judgment against Moab, Ammon, Edom, and Philistia.
- How Edom's hostility toward Israel contributed to its judgment.
- The historical significance of the ancient Moabite cities mentioned in Ezekiel.
- Ezekiel 26–28: God's judgment against the wealthy and powerful city of Tyre.
- How Ezekiel's prophecy concerning Tyre was fulfilled through historical events.
- Ezekiel 28: The pride of the prince of Tyre and the debated passage that many interpreters understand as also pointing to Satan.
- The connection between pride and spiritual rebellion.
- Why Philippians 2 gives us the perfect contrast to the pride described in Ezekiel.
- Ezekiel 29–30: God's judgment against Pharaoh and Egypt.
- The repeated biblical declaration: “Then they shall know that I am the Lord.”
- God's promise of restoration and hope for His people.
- What the fall of powerful nations teaches us about God's sovereignty.
- How biblical parenting can help our children pursue achievement without making achievement their identity.
Christian Parenting Wisdom: Are We Raising Successful Kids or Faithful Kids?
Most of us want good things for our children.
We want them to work hard.
We want them to develop their talents.
We want them to succeed in school.
We want them to excel in sports, music, academics, or their careers.
We want them to have opportunities.
There is nothing inherently wrong with those desires.
But Ezekiel 25–30 reminds us that a gift can become dangerous when it begins producing pride instead of gratitude.
A child can receive a trophy and learn humility.
Or they can receive a trophy and begin believing they are better than everyone else.
A child can excel academically and use that ability to serve others.
Or they can begin finding their identity in being smarter than everyone around them.
A child can become successful and give God the glory.
Or they can begin believing, “My success proves that I don't need God.”
That is why biblical parenting isn't simply about helping our children become successful.
It is about helping them become faithful followers of Jesus.
Would You Rather Have a Humble Child or an Impressive One?
This is one of the questions Stephanie explores in today's episode:
Would I rather have my child humble with dirt on their knees because they bow to the lordship of Jesus Christ—or elevated on a pedestal with a gold medal around their neck?
That's a difficult question for parents because sometimes our own pride gets wrapped up in our children's accomplishments.
Their success can make us feel successful.
Their talent can make us feel proud.
Their recognition can make us feel recognized.
But our children don't belong on the throne—and neither do we.
The goal isn't to suppress our children's gifts or discourage them from pursuing excellence. Instead, we can teach them to hold their plans loosely and use their abilities for the glory of Christ rather than their own glory.
Teaching Children to Recognize the Danger of Pride
One of the gifts we can give our children is helping them recognize the early signs of self-reliance.
What happens when they win?
What happens when they lose?
How do they respond when someone else succeeds?
Do they need recognition?
Do they become angry when they're not the best?
Are they willing to serve when nobody notices?
Can they receive correction?
Do they thank God for their abilities?
These seemingly small moments can reveal what is happening in the heart.
Biblical parenting isn't merely about correcting outward behavior. It's about helping our children see what is happening in their hearts and continually pointing them toward Christ.
Jesus Gives Us the Opposite Picture of Pride
Ezekiel 28 describes a ruler whose wisdom, beauty, wealth, and splendor became reasons for pride.
Philippians 2 gives us the stunning contrast.
Jesus, who truly deserved all glory, humbled Himself. He took the form of a servant and became obedient to the point of death—even death on a cross.
The world tells our children:
Climb higher. Be noticed. Be the best. Make a name for yourself.
Jesus shows us something entirely different:
Humble yourself. Serve others. Give God the glory.
That is the kind of greatness we want to cultivate in our homes.
A Challenge for Christian Moms
As you think about your children's gifts and future, ask:
Is this opportunity producing more pride or more praise?
Sometimes the most loving parenting decision isn't simply asking, “Is this a good opportunity?”
It may be asking:
“What is this opportunity doing to my child's heart?”
We can encourage our children to pursue excellence while reminding them that their identity isn't found in a grade, trophy, position, talent, college acceptance, career, appearance, or accomplishment.
Their greatest achievement will never be what they accomplish for themselves.
Their greatest treasure is knowing Christ.
Scripture Mentioned
- Ezekiel 25–30
- Ezekiel 25:15–17
- Ezekiel 26:12–14
- Ezekiel 28:1–19
- Ezekiel 29–30
- Philippians 2:3–11
A Prayer for Christian Moms
Heavenly Father, help us to pursue humility rather than striving for our own glory.
Help us teach our children to use their gifts and abilities for Your glory. Give us wisdom to recognize when success is producing pride rather than praise. Help us not to overlook the small signs of self-reliance, arrogance, or love of worldly recognition in our children's hearts.
Teach our families to hold our plans loosely and remain surrendered to You. May our children grow not simply to be successful, talented, or accomplished, but to be faithful followers of Jesus Christ.
You alone deserve the glory.
Amen.
Resources Mentioned:
- Entrusted With a Child's Heart
- The Again Podcast: Interview with Chris McKenna Part 1, Part 2
- Full-Circle Discipline Resources
- Journey Through the Bible
Commentaries Most Referenced: Moody Commentary, MacArthur Commentary