Dykelemmas

Join us this week for a little mid-season interlude! On this episode, we're back with some quick-fire questions. Listen as we talk: Cheating, D!irty Talk, Our Ideal P0rn0 and MORE!

Links for this episode:

https://www.negaytiationtime.com/product-page/negaytiation-time-lesbian-edition

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If you're in the lesbian or sapphic world, there is one cold hard fact we all know; Sapphic heartbreak sucks! But is it really any worse than heartbreak for other sexualities? Why does it hurt so much? How can we overcome it and see heartbreak as an opportunity for growth?

Links:

Do lesbian breakups hit harder? https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/2021/12/10788135/lesbian-queer-releationship-breakup

Same-sex divorce statistics: https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/birthsdeathsandmarriages/divorce/bulletins/divorcesinenglandandwales/2020

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The age-old question... do we scissor? The answer.. yeah.. kind of.. it depends. Listen to Lucy and Juliet's thoughts on the mystical act of tr!bb!ng.

Links:

We-vibe chorus: https://www.we-vibe.com/uk/chorus

Tr!bb!ng definition: https://www.autostraddle.com/tribbing-definition/

Lesbian Tr!bb!ing guide: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a35013871/tribbing/

Is $cissoring real? https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/is-scissoring-real

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Happy Pride Month everyone! To close off this years pride month, Lucy and Juliet are discussing the intricacies of Rainbow Washing and what it can mean for our community. Whilst some members of the community are happy to see the rainbow flag flying high above businesses, others believe it is a shameful display or capitalising on our lives. There is a lot to cover this week, so get yourself strapped in and lets get going!

Links:

What is rainbow-washing? https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/a43713768/rainbow-washing/

Primark proud Families campaign:https://www.primark.com/en-us/a/inspiration/special-occasions/celebrating-found-families 

Disney pride: https://disneyparks.disney.go.com/blog/2022/05/share-your-pride/ 

Gay inclusive companies: https://www.ig.com/uk/trading-strategies/top-10-lgbtq--friendly-companies-220623 

Parades, no public posts: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/07/pride-month-boycotts-target-bud-light-brands-companies

Article about H&M and Levi https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-44500638

Stonewall article about China https://www.stonewall.org.uk/system/files/china_global_workplace_briefing_2018.pdf

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Hi Gays! Happy Pride Month. It's our favourite time of year and it should be yours too! This week we are reminiscing on our previous Pride experiences, discussing our dream prides and offering up some advise if you are thinking of attending your first pride!

Links

Roman Manfredi photography artist who created we/us, find them on Instagram at @butchfemmelove

@pixiepeaches on instagram for the best burlesque performer in London 

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/travel/inspiration/best-places-to-celebrate-pride-around-the-world 

https://www.wehopride.com 

https://csd-berlin.de/en/programm/dyke-march-berlin-2 

https://membersdykesonbikeslondon.wordpress.com/london-pride-2019/ 

https://www.manchesterpride.com/events 

https://prideinlondon.org/event/lgbtqia-women-and-non-binary-stage-2qqkVYzLS6MebTgxWMm1t2/

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The girls had so much fun last week, they couldn't leave it there! The girls put their sexy smart girl glasses on and teach you all there is to know about purchasing your first strap. It really is their duty to help all the Lezzas out there achieve their strapping dreams! If you're looking to learn everything you might need to purchase before you get strapping, you're in the right place. We're tightening the harness as we speak.

Links

Real doll (amazing dildo!): https://www.realdoll.com/realcock-2/

Spare Parts Harness https://pleasuregardenshop.co.uk/shop/harnesses/fabric-harnesses/spareparts-hardware-joque/

Tips on getting started with strapping https://www.autostraddle.com/strap-on-lesbian-sex-422703/

The queer woman's guide to the strap on blowjob https://www.vice.com/en/article/vbqzay/strap-on-blow-jobs-queer-women-lesbian-faux-jobs

Wetforher: https://www.wetforher.com

Simply pleasure: https://www.simplypleasure.com

Article about hard packing http://afemmecock.com/2016/11/01/hardpacking/

Article about packing https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a57549/everything-youve-ever-wanted-to-know-about-packing/

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That REALLY is the question. You knew it was coming. You can't have Lucy and Juliet in a room together and not expect them to talk about strapping. This week the girls discuss how to know if you might want to strap, how to travel safely with your strap on and should we really be putting condoms on the strap?! Get ready to cringe, laugh and honesty probably be a little worried about how much the girls enjoyed talking about this topic.

Links for this episode:

Ballad of Songbird and Snakes by Suzanne Collins: https://www.waterstones.com/book/the-ballad-of-songbirds-and-snakes-a-hunger-games-novel/suzanne-collins/9780702309519

Recycling sex toys https://www.straight.com/article-132101/sex-toy-etiquette-and-how-to-recycle-them-afterwards

BDSM Test https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode

Article about hard packing http://afemmecock.com/2016/11/01/hardpacking/

Article about packing https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a57549/everything-youve-ever-wanted-to-know-about-packing/

Article about ‘strapless’ strapons https://www.tantusinc.com/blogs/sexed/33853700-the-truth-about-strapless-strap-ons-ruby-ryder

Pixie Peaches burlesque performer Instagram @pixiepeachez

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Join Juliet and Lucy this week as they dive into their very first Dykey-Dilemma! This week we hope to explore one listener's query of whether the label of Lesbian is inclusive of non binary genders. Listen as we explore alternative labels such as Gynesexual (It's not what you think) and our personal journeys of using this label.

Links for the episode:

Article about Non-Binary Lesbians - https://radiantbutch.medium.com/non-binary-lesbians-have-always-existed-7db6b9e7e646

Article about Gynesexuality - https://taimi.com/wiki/gynesexual-what-is-it-what-does-it-mean

Another article about Gynesexuality (regarding TERF usage)

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Straight girls and Lesbians. The love story that never was or the perfect friends to lovers love story? The girls talk about their experiences having crushes on straight girls, their celeb straight crushes and why most lesbians have at least one incident of fancying a straight women. Do we really all do it? Can it work out? Let’s find out! 

Links for the episode:

Articles:

Guardian Article - https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2012/apr/20/staceyann-chin-straight-women-thrill-me

Queer Baiting in the music industry - https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/queerbaiting-lgbtq-community-1201273/

True Story - https://gomag.com/article/chasing-the-straight-chick/

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The girls drive into the topic of why us Lezzas have such an urge to remain friends with past flings and Ex’s. Lucy and Juliet consider whether this is an accurate stereotype of Lesbians, discuss their own Ex friendship stories, as well as why it might be a good or poor choice to keep your ex in your life. Can it ever work? Let’s find out. 

Links Mentioned:

Lesbian Discussion Group Insta - https://instagram.com/lesbiandiscussiongroup?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Men Who Hate Women by Laura Bates - https://www.waterstones.com/book/men-who-hate-women/laura-bates/9781398504653

Channel 4 documentary ' The Secret World of Incels: UNTOLD' - Channel 4https://www.channel4.com › the-se...The Secret World of Incels: UNTOLD

LGBTQ+ more likely to be friends with exes article - https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/inclusive-insight/202109/are-lgbtq-people-more-likely-stay-friends-their-exes

Research about dark personality traits and being friends with an ex - https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886916302690

Article about the queer stereotype of staying friends with exes - https://saltyworld.net/not-all-lesbians-stay-friends-with-their-exes-and-thats-ok/

Butch Please Insta - https://instagram.com/butchpleaselondon?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

Article about the reasons for why some people stay friends with their Ex's: https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/pere.12197

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