Dynamics On Love

Nicholle is a end of life celebrant and fellow wellness facilitator. Ive known Nicholle for years and I loved hearing her process as she described her calling as a funeral officiant. In this episode, her and I discuss each of our gifts in creating and facilitating during the ceremony process. She does an amazing job at capturing a persons life and respectually and fully honoring those who have passed away. This was a very informative and enjoyable conversation. Thank you for coming to chat with me Nicholle :)

This episode can inspire how to cultivate healing growth and a desire to create a relationship with a greater purpose. Katie and Dillon have held a very devoted stance in eachother and the sacredness of marriage. This was a wonderful episode

Majority of our relationship " issues" start in our own mind. We project our worry mind onto our partners and create SHOULDS that arent helpful.

How we stay present and open minded in opposite views.This episode inspires communication and open minds to better understand our partners opposite stances in religion, politics & personalities. As well as why Matt and I choose to want eachother and not NEED eachother and how we appreicate independence in our relationship. Matt, thanks for stay open minded and coming onto this podcast my love :)

Lets discuss different examples of having standards and enjoying are partner verses attaching to our partners from our insecurity. I talk about going to events and doings things without your partner, how to do things out of conserdation for eachother as opposed to controlling eachother and how to set standards and and boundaries over needing your partner to be a certain way for you.

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Its ok to have doubts. We dont have to know with certainty of something to step into a relationship with an open heart. And it doesnt all have to align perfectly for us to begin. We always have moments that require us to step into something when we aren't absolutely sure. Relationships have junctures that require us to step into uncertainty. Willingness is really all we need. Willingness to see something through until clarity comes again. Willingness to trust and leap without knowing how it will turn out. You can be willing to step into a relationship without fully being ready! Lets discuss "normal" doubts that could arise for all of us and that they dont have to mean more than our desire to keep trying.

I wed Nikki and Boston in Phoenix during Spring of 2022. Since then I have followed their lives closely on social media, keeping in touch and seeing how life through them EVERYTHING it could all at once. Along with the blessing of their first child, they also went through the loss of Nikki's mom to cancer. They left their lives in Houston, TX to take care of her right after their honeymoon. They had to PIVOT fast and quick over and over. They are a true testament of RESILIENCY in a relationship. I jumped on the opportunity to have them speak about their circumstances, their love, and how they got through the hard stuff. " You just do it" seemed to be their motto as they worked through the ups and downs with grace. They are amazing souls and I hope you enjoy this episode in all of its messaging. Nikki and Boston you inspire me more than you know!

After working in this industry and maturing in my spiritual and relationship journeys, I no longer believe we have one DESTINED person. I think God brings us opportunities and we get to choose who we stay on our love journey with. We decide when to put both feet in and evolve with someone or when to leave. Lets go through some examples of manifesting your ideal partner VS staying with someone you enjoy and respect while you rides the waves together.

Why do we gauge success on a relationship based on length of time? Our past relationships teach us and prep us for the next phases of our lives. Lets look at different examples and points of view in why relationships are here for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.

Hi, I'm Brittany, and this is the Dynamics on Love podcast. I marry people for a living. After working with hundreds of couples as a professional wedding officiant, I've learned that there is no formula for a happy relationship. The best, most fulfilling relationships don't just magically happen. They're created after continuous choosing, staying curious, staying open, and healing and evolving with your person. Let's debunk this Cinderella story, and instead, let me and these real life stories inspire you to write your own. Whatever your relationship status is, we hope that you listen in as I share my own insights, interview couples that I've wed, and discuss different paths of love journeys. Love, your joyful, officiant, Brittany.