In this powerful episode of Coursen’s Corner, host Spencer Coursen sits down with Katerina Schload to discuss the evolution of identity through marriage, motherhood, and professional transformation. From redefining success and navigating family dynamics to the importance of fitness, masculinity and femininity, and showing up for yourself — this episode delivers real, grounded advice on becoming who you're meant to be.

Whether you're in a transitional season, exploring self-worth beyond titles, or looking to find alignment in your daily life, this is a must-listen.

Timestamps:

- [00:00 - 04:28] – Intro to Katerina and the conversation setup

- [04:28 - 08:56] – The roles we inherit vs. the ones we create for ourselves

- [08:56 - 13:24] – Biggest lessons learned from marriage and self-awareness

- [13:24 - 17:52] – How adrenaline only takes you so far in long-term growth

- [17:52 - 22:20] – Why fitness is the one thing we can always control

- [22:20 - 26:48] – Perspective on showing up for yourself daily

- [26:48 - 31:16] – Parenting as an identity shift and empowerment experience

- [31:16 - 35:44] – The formula for adults pursuing new passions later in life

- [35:44 - 40:12] – Reframing what success looks like as a parent and professional

- [40:12 - 44:40] – Moving beyond performative hustle: redefining "hard work"

- [44:40 - 49:08] – Masculine vs. feminine energy needs in modern relationships

- [49:08 - 53:36] – “Hard work” doesn’t mean burnout: the American family dilemma

- [53:36 - 58:04] – Analogy for clarity: not knowing what you want vs. showing up anyway

- [58:04 - 01:02:32] – Emotional intelligence as a success metric

- [01:02:32 - 01:07:00] – Closing thoughts: why presence matters more than productivity

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