E05 - Peaks and Valleys with Brian and Linda Seitz | Tools for Marriage

In this powerful episode of Tools for Marriage, Trevor and Laura sit down with Brian and Linda Seitz—leaders of Peaks and Valleys, a Christian marriage ministry with a heart for first responder couples. With over 36 years of marriage, they share wisdom forged through real-life trials: being unequally yoked, navigating a law enforcement career, facing health crises, and raising a family.

You’ll hear about their faith-filled journey, the creation of their marriage retreats, their books, and real stories of couples who turned things around. Whether you're in ministry, married to a first responder, or just looking to strengthen your relationship—this episode will encourage, equip, and inspire you.

👇 Use the chapter timestamps below to jump to your favorite part!

(0:00) Welcome & Guest Introduction

(1:18) Peaks & Valleys: Ministry Origins

(5:55) The Challenges of a Law Enforcement Marriage

(10:00) Bridging the Gap: Officer Persona vs. Home Life

(13:34) Learning by Teaching: Growing Through Counseling

(20:24) Healing Retreats for Law Enforcement Couples

(24:00) Faith at the Forefront: Retreat Approach

(35:39) The Power of Selflessness in Marriage

(37:25) Marriage: A Picture of Christ & The Church

(39:50) Navigating an Unequally Yoked Marriage

(46:27) Healthy Self-Care Within Marriage

(53:03) Stories of Hope & Transformation

(54:54) Understanding Personality Differences

(57:24) Resources & Final Encouragement

(58:48) Closing Blessing & Prayer

📖 Learn more or get their books at: https://peaksandvalleys.life/