Attraction to unavailable men is a protection mechanism. If you’ve experienced pain in the past, you’ve learned to protect yourself by keeping the relationships at surface level, afraid you’ll lose them and covering the fear up with emotional unavailability. Nothing wrong with that, it’s a learnef response, but changing it has to start with recognizing that this is the case and slowly undoing the thoughts that drive the feelings that make you want to continue doing it. In this episode, I show you how to start doing that. For more resources, videos, and tips, check out https://linktr.ee/lovingafterdivorce