No one is perfect—but what if that’s actually the secret to thriving? If you’ve ever questioned your abilities because you missed the mark or made a mistake, you’re not alone.

This episode unpacks why embracing your perfectly imperfect self is the key to genuine confidence and sustained growth.

Let’s face it: so much of our personal and business growth gets stifled by the mindset that we have to be flawless. The myth of perfection quietly shapes our behaviors, our actions, and even our dreams.

Separating who we are from what we do is critical for cultivating self-assurance, taking more risks, and navigating business with resilience. This fresh perspective can move you from self-doubt to steady confidence.

What you need to know

• We’re conditioned from an early age to believe that perfection is an unattainable goal, but our true nature is wired for growth and exploration.
• You are—and always have been—created perfectly. The imperfect part isn’t you; it’s just your results.
• Much of our thinking, including common sayings and traditions, programs us for playing it safe or doubting our instincts.
• Separating your sense of self from your behavior is essential. Mistakes are evidence of action, not proof of inadequacy.
• Our nature is adventurous, intuitive, and imaginative, but learned beliefs can fence us in and keep us from thriving.

What you need to do

• Start noticing those “little sayings” or stories you’ve picked up—are they pushing you forward or holding you back?
• Actively remind yourself that your worth isn’t defined by outcomes. Reflect on moments where you conflated your personal value with imperfect results.
• Begin separating your being from your behavior. Instead of “I failed,” reframe it as “That attempt didn’t work out.”
• Lean into your intuition and imagination—give yourself space to be curious, explore, and pursue new ideas without self-judgment.
• Recognize and challenge traditions or family patterns that no longer serve your growth—don’t be afraid to create new ones.

Your Next Step

Connect with others who are ready to break free of old programming and step confidently into their unique version of success. Embrace your perfectly imperfect path—it’s where your greatest growth begins.

00:00 Welcome

00:35 Introduction to Episode 8

01:06 Segment 2: Key Issues

02:24 The Concept of Perfection

04:57 Nature vs. Programming

07:15 Examples of Programming vs. Nature

11:30 Conclusion and Next Steps