Enneagram Adventure

E54: “I’m the Problem”: Enneagram Self-Awareness, Triggers, and Owning Your Patterns


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In this episode of Enneagram Adventure, Tannah and Holly discuss a social media post titled “I’m the Problem” (from Aligned Soul Co) as a potentially triggering but useful prompt for self-awareness, emphasizing the Enneagram as a tool for understanding core motivation (“your why”), not just behavior. They read and react to “I’m the problem” statements for multiple types—starting with Eight (bulldozing, testing people, accidental intimidation), then Two (keeping score and “buying” love), Five (protecting energy by shutting down or disappearing), Four (making feelings others’ responsibility and using depth to create distance), Six (creating the chaos they fear and anxiety spreading), Nine (peacekeeping through avoidance and silent resentment), Seven (avoiding heaviness with constant optimism and exits), Three (performing to be impressive and turning connection into competition), and One (high standards and feedback that makes others feel wrong). They close by noting everyone has growth work and inviting listeners to like, subscribe, comment, and share.


00:00 Tea Wisdom Banter

01:22 Podcast Intro Enneagram Basics

02:23 Why Self Awareness Matters

03:23 Im The Problem Setup

06:05 Type Eight Reality Check

08:16 Eight Tension Truth Bombs

12:28 Type Two Keeping Score

16:25 Two Work Recognition Currency

18:18 Type Five Disappearing Walls

20:55 Runaway Coping Mode

22:41 Enneagram Four Zingers

26:34 Sixes Testing And Anxiety

30:41 Nines Avoiding Realness

33:53 Sevens Escaping Heavy Stuff

36:30 Threes Performing To Win

39:40 Ones High Standards And Critique

45:29 Awareness And Wrap Up


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Enneagram AdventureBy Tannah Flora and Holly Deschenes