This episode examines the developmental and ethical boundaries of youth participation in transformational programs like Landmark Worldwide. Writer and strategist Ben Eisenberg shares what it means to grow up inside a high-control self-help framework before meaningful consent is possible.

Ben’s work is not a takedown. It is a separation.

Drawing from a manuscript he originally wrote to understand and deconstruct his own experience, Ben explores how transformational language, psychological tools, and high-control frameworks shaped his development long before he could meaningfully consent.

Together, Anne and Ben examine:

** The difference between adult consent and childhood indoctrination

** How legitimate psychological tools can become harmful when misapplied

** The impact of Landmark Worldwide style teachings on emotional regulation, identity formation, and trauma processing

** The weaponization of concepts like “integrity,” “choice,” and “meaning”

** Why youth programming crosses a critical ethical line

** How unresolved trauma surfaces decades later — in the body, not just the mind

This is a nuanced, compassionate conversation that holds both benefit and harm without collapsing into absolutes. It invites listeners to think critically, reflect honestly, and consider what ethical responsibility truly looks like in the personal development industry.

RESOURCES & LINKS: Read Ben’s full manuscript here https://medium.com/@beneisenberg_10514/my-experience-growing-up-in-landmark-education-landmark-worldwide-1aae2ea2582e

Read Anne’s Book Is This A Cult: Confronting the Line Between Exploitation and Transformation and find other pods and resources → https://isthisacultbook.com/

If you or someone you know is wrestling with recovery after being involved in a high-control group, relationship or any organization, check out the Healthy Healing and Recovery Group w/ Rachel Bernstein https://ilumn8.life/op/lgat-recovery-group/

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