Enneagram Adventure

E68:Why You “Can’t Understand” Them (And the One Question That Changes Everything) | Enneagram Adventure


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Tannah and Holly co-hosts of Enneagram Adventure (both IQ9 certified Enneagram coaches) discuss how life and relationships improve when you choose genuine curiosity and a willingness to understand others, especially across political or belief divides. They emphasize that understanding doesn’t equal forgiveness and that healthy depth requires mutual effort, not one-sided responsibility or tolerance of unhealthy dynamics. Using the Enneagram as a tool for self-awareness, they explore how triggers, ego, pride, resentment, manipulation, and conflict can block curiosity, and how deep work gets easier with practice. They give quick “curiosity questions” for each Enneagram type (1–9) to help people understand themselves and others, then invite listeners to reach out for a recommended assessment or future episode ideas.


00:00 Love Story Park Intro

00:24 Podcast Welcome Setup

01:00 Enneagram Basics Disclaimer

02:08 Why Curiosity Matters

03:26 Politics Divide Example

06:08 Boundaries Accountability

07:05 Conflict Versus Forgiveness

07:37 Subtypes And Curiosity

09:22 Self Awareness Deep Work

14:52 Enneagram As Gateway

17:41 Compassion In Relationships

22:52 Deep Work Gets Easier

26:06 Questions For Each Type

27:13 Understanding Their Motives

27:50 Type One Curiosity

28:30 Type Two Boundaries

29:19 Type Three Letting Go

29:58 Type Four Feeling Seen

30:36 Type Five Asking Help

31:37 Type Six Positive Intent

32:55 Type Seven Facing Pain

34:29 Type Eight Beyond Anger

36:00 Type Nine Staying Present

38:09 Outdoor Wrap Up

38:51 Where To Find Us


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Enneagram AdventureBy Tannah Flora and Holly Deschenes