It's not glamorous, mysterious, or even fun. But it's oh, so important. Is a difference between feeling lost in grasping for lifelines or making decisions because they feel right from a place of strength and confidence. It doesn't mean that everything will turn out as you plan. And it doesn't mean that you'll feel more comfortable with the outcome because it was your choice. 

So, what do I mean? I mean when you make a choice based on other people's opinions without exploring if it's right for you. Then you give your power away. It's like when we were kids. And you did what your parents said, even if you didn't feel right to you