Do you find yourself apologizing for what you don't know rather than confidently showcasing what you do? Tracy sits down with Jodie Kelley, CEO of the Electronic Transactions Association, who brings over 25 years of experience navigating leadership roles in male-dominated industries.

As women, we're often conditioned to focus on the boxes we don't tick instead of the ones we do. This unconscious pattern creates invisible barriers that hold us back more effectively than any glass ceiling.

In this revealing conversation, Jodie shares how her non-linear career path led to unexpected success and the crucial mindset shifts that separate those who break through from those who stay stuck. Her story proves that following what brings you joy can lead to more fulfillment than following a prescribed path.

"If you are doing your homework, really throwing yourself into your job in a positive way and delivering, that matters. And if you bring with it that confidence in yourself, there is definitely a path. It's not that there is no glass ceiling, but there is a way to get to where you want to be." ~ Jodie Kelley

Do you feel safe in a system that wasn't designed for you? When women are an afterthought in political structures, what does that mean for your rights today?

As Tracy digs into the history of women in American politics, she uncovers uncomfortable truths about how women have been systematically excluded from foundational documents and political parties. Comfort in this system is an illusion—one that could evaporate faster than you think.

In this episode, Tracy explores:

"Wherever you're not speaking out, you feel protected. Wherever you feel that if you take a step in a different direction, that's too scary, that's where you feel protected. But you're not really protected. You aren't because you're not in the Constitution." ~ Tracy Crossley

Join us, as Tracy speaks with Heather Box, co-founder of the Million Person Project, about the art of storytelling as an act of love, realness, and courage. Together, learn about Heather as a leader and what made her decide to start her project. She also explains why knowing your narrative makes you powerful. 

What You’ll Learn:

"Your story is not about what happened to you or about what you did. It's about who you've chosen to be given that." ~ Heather Box

Women have been fighting for equality for centuries—so why are we still battling for basic rights? In this episode, Tracy dives into the hard truth about systemic patriarchy, the barriers that keep women from true equity, and why the fight is far from over. From the Seneca Falls Convention to today’s stalled Equal Rights Amendment, we break down what’s really standing in the way of progress.

The system thrives on division, but real change happens when we come together. If you’re tired of playing by the old rules, this conversation will challenge you to rethink power, privilege, and what it takes to create lasting change.

Key Takeaways:

"The fight for equality was never about asking for permission—it’s about taking back what should have never been denied." ~ Tracy Crossley

What keeps us divided? In this deeply personal episode, Tracy reflects on her childhood, systemic inequality, and the invisible forces that pit us against one another. From racism and privilege to patriarchy’s grip on society, she explores how these systems create division and how true leadership means confronting them head-on.

This isn’t about blame—it’s about understanding. What happens when we stop accepting the status quo and start questioning the narratives we’ve been taught? Tracy unpacks the ways power structures are designed to keep us separate and the courage it takes to dismantle them.

“Prejudice doesn’t come from confidence—it comes from insecurity. People who feel whole don’t need to diminish others.” — Tracy Crossley

Patriarchy gets tossed around a lot.

The system was made by men for men who wanted to hold onto their possessions.

It has been this way for thousands of years.  We’ve been conditioned to believe success means fitting into a structure that wasn’t made for women. 

If it actually worked, why are so many people burned out, stressed, and still fighting for a seat at the table? In this episode of Earned Wisdom, Tracy Crossley breaks down how the patriarchal system keeps women stuck and how to change it.

It’s not about fighting harder—it’s about seeing the game for what it is and choosing a different way. You don’t need permission to redefine success, leadership, or power. You just need to stop believing in a system that will never work for you.

What You’ll Learn:

"The system doesn’t hold you back—believing in it does." ~ Tracy Crossley

Women make up more than half the population, yet we’re still not in the U.S. Constitution, and power remains out of reach for many. In this episode, Tracy Crossley and Leisa Peterson, a financial expert, author, and advocate for economic empowerment, expose the hidden forces keeping women from true equality—systemic barriers, cultural conditioning, and the illusion of progress.

This isn’t about blame; it’s about action. If we want real change, we have to see the system for what it is and decide what we’re going to do about it.

Key Takeaways:

“Unless we keep speaking up, keep showing up, and keep doing things that actually make a difference, nothing will change."  Tracy Crossley

What happens when unchecked power is handed to a select few without oversight? In this special episode, Tracy Crossley and Leisa Peterson, financial expert and founder of WealthClinic, expose how billionaires are gaining unprecedented control over financial systems and personal data—without public consent. 

The question isn’t left or right—it’s about power, secrecy, and who really benefits.

Tracy and Leisa break down the hidden risks of billionaires “fixing” the system. It’s time to stop waiting for a savior and start asking the hard questions.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

"The highest form of ignorance is rejecting what you don’t know." – Tracy Crossley

It’s what you know. It’s a system that may take you years to see how it is set up for a small group. You, me and every other woman no matter the race, religion or creed doesn’t operate at the top of the system no matter how fantastic of a leader you happen to be.  

I know if you are listening, you are not a victim to the system, because being a victim means helpless to change. That’s not what we are going for, understanding how it currently hobbles along doesn’t work for many.

Today, I am sharing from a historical and present day perspective. From wealth disparities to the “in your face” societal norms, nod your head along to how it perpetuates inequality and has us feeling guilty or ashamed while trying to chase down the feeling of success.

It isn’t about blame—it’s about clarity. You’ll gain insight into the unseen forces shaping your beliefs, relationships, and self-worth to change the balance of power.

Key Takeaways:

"The highest form of ignorance is rejecting what you don’t know."

~ Tracy Crossley

You may not realize you were born into a system. One that doesn’t look at you as an individual. Taught from a young age values that may not work for you. Join me as we talk about the pressures of a mother in a patriarchal society, how does she lead or is she only a follower? Many get a mixed message leaving them overwhelmed and disconnected.

The expectations placed on women erode personal identity, create loneliness, and a cycle of helplessness (even if you cannot see it)—women are leaders, it’s time to reclaim your power, set boundaries, and redefine what it means to thrive in motherhood and beyond.

Key Insights from this Episode:

Take the first step toward rewriting your story and embracing your authentic self. Listen now!

"Where are you giving your power away? Stop doing it, but don’t stop it and blame others—instead, recognize you haven’t been taking care of yourself and start respecting your own space." ~ Tracy Crossley