Becoming Jesus People: An Introduction to the Twelve Habitudes
1 as in aptitude a habitual attraction to some activity or thing
2 as in habit a usual manner of behaving or doing
Habit One: Getting Close
1. Come and See. John 1:39 – Everyone starts as an observer. Curiosity, a question, a friend's invitation. Jesus welcomes questions before he demands answers.
2. Follow Me. Matthew 4:19 – Curiosity has an expiration date. Eventually it has to become a decision. When Jesus called Peter, Andrew, James, and John, they left their nets. No negotiation.
3. Be With Jesus. Mark 3:14 – Before the twelve did anything for Jesus, they were simply with him. Presence comes before performance. This might be the most overlooked step in modern discipleship.
Habit Two: Learning to Live It
4. Learn the Way of Jesus. Matthew 11:29 – Jesus taught how life actually works under God's reign. Prayer, money, forgiveness, anxiety, enemies. Not abstract ideas. Instructions for how to live.
5. Practice the Way of Jesus. Matthew 7:24 – Jesus said the wise builder is the one who hears his words and does them. Knowledge without obedience is a house with no foundation.
6. Live in Community. John 13:35 – Jesus never discipled anyone alone. He formed a people. We are shaped as much by the friction and forgiveness of a small group as by anything we read on our own.
Habit Three: Being Sent
7. Serve Like Jesus. John 13:15 – Jesus did not lecture on humility. He knelt and washed feet. Some things you only learn with your hands.
8. Go With Jesus. Luke 9:2 – Jesus sent the twelve out to practice what they were learning in real conditions, then called them back to debrief. Formation and mission were never separated.
9. Receive Correction. Mark 8:33 – The disciples got things wrong constantly. Peter rebuked Jesus. James and John wanted to call down fire. Jesus did not discard them. He kept forming them. Correction is not rejection. It is love with a purpose.
Habit Four: Reproducing the Life
10. Become Like Jesus. Luke 6:40 – The goal was never just to know what Jesus knows or do what Jesus does. It is to become the kind of person he is. Love, patience, humility, courage.
11. Make Disciples. Matthew 28:19 – At some point the question shifts from how am I growing to who am I helping grow. Every disciple is meant to become a disciple maker.
12. Go and Send. 2 Timothy 2:2 – Jesus entrusted his entire mission to a handful of ordinary, unfinished people, trusting that what he placed in them would carry forward for generations.