This week, we have the honor of chatting with Gail Miller, the owner of the Larry H. Miller Group of Companies and Immediate Past Chair of the Board of Directors of Larry H. Miller Management Corporation. She currently serves on the president's campaign senior advisory council at the University of Utah.
Aside from being actively engaged in the company's various operations, Gail also presides over the Larry H. Miller Education Foundation and the Larry H. and Gail Miller Family Foundation. She gives generously of her time and resources to civic endeavors.
In this episode, Gail shares with us details about her upbringing and what it was like to grow up in a large family where money was often tight. Listen as she tells us how she persevered through the challenges in her life - from being the supporter of her family to being a wife and mother and ultimately stepping to a new role of becoming the owner of a large company.
We can all resonate with the biggest obstacle in Gail's life - fear. It's the reason she wrote her book, Courage to Be You: Inspiring Lessons from An Unexpected Journey. It's compelling how she overcame fear through faith and perseverance.
We also hear why Gail got involved with the university community and what inspired her to get connected to higher education. She also has some pretty good advice for women who want to transition from being stay-at-home mothers to the workplace once again.
Finally, we get to know the future of Larry H. Miller Group of Companies and what Gail hopes her legacy will be.
Episode Quotes:
Why she supports many of the women's initiatives at the university and business school
"When I was in the trenches of running our company, I think it put me in a position of recognition in the community that here's a woman who took this business, she stepped in, didn't make it fail, and hung on and became very successful. And I think as that happened, other women looked at what I did and felt that I was a role model. I never aspired to be, nor did I ever aspire to be a businesswoman, but that's why I feel it's important to support women as they want to become successful either in the business world or a nonprofit world or education or whatever they want to do. If I can be an influence by supporting women in their endeavors, I'm happy to do that."
On the importance of education
"I can see what it provides. Not just women but anyone who goes to college, it's not just the education you get. It's all of the other parts of it, everything that goes with it. It's being able to prepare yourself in life with what education gives you, having exposure to how the world works and to a variety of organizations and institutions and people, makes them well-rounded. It prepares them to go out into the world and take responsibilities that help society function well. Those are things I think are so beneficial about an education."
On growing up
"I don't feel like I was deprived because our parents taught us how to be creative, make do with what we have, develop our talents, and have confidence in ourselves. And so, I learned a lot of things from not having much that helped me navigate practically in the world.
And it's interesting how the things that you go through in life do build your character and build that, I call it a tapestry of your life because everything you do adds to that quilt that you're making, and some parts of it are right and colored, and some are not quite so beautiful. But when it's all together, it's quite nice. I wouldn't change any of that."
What does it mean to persevere?
"To me, it means every day is a new adventure. Today is going to be different than yesterday but because it's a new adventure, I try to look at it with fresh eyes and add it to what I've already learned. And that's persevering - knowing that I can get through today, I can do what I need to, I can benefit from what I've learned, and I can build on that for tomorrow. And I don't have to carry baggage with me. Every day, I can do something new and useful, find joy and courage, overcome my trials, and build strength."
Advice to stay at home women who are looking to transition into the workforce
"I always think of it as seasons of life. There is a time to be a mother and a wife, and a homemaker. There's a time to go to school. There's a time to build your career. And if they dovetail, that's great. If you can manage that, that's great. But only whether you're capable of doing it. And if it doesn't work, it doesn't mean you're a failure. It just means maybe the time isn't right. But it will be later.
If women want to have a career, that's great. I look at women who have great careers, and I think, wow, I wish I could do that. And then, I think if they want to be a stay-at-home mom, I don't think there's anything more important than that.
So, it's not an either-or. It's a matter of where your focus is and what you really want to do, what you want for yourself. And I think you can have a career and have wonderful children at the same time, but I certainly wouldn't judge anyone if they chose one over the other."
Show Links:
- Larry H. Miller Group of Companies
- Courage to Be You: Inspiring Lessons from An Unexpected Journey
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