The toughest kind of grit is the grit that binds us to people. Its the commitment to be with and for people. The people you love and adore, the people who rip your heart out and stomp on it, the grit that demands the most courage and perseverance is the kind that commits us to people.
Within the context of last week's question...how can we get gritty about developing people of virtue....or the church's BETTER question....how can get more gritty about working with the Spirit to build people who reflect the character of God....who are holy.
Preface it with a quotation by David Brooks concerning the greatest builder of virtue is commitment. He says commitment to a partner, a vocation, a place, and philosophy. Yes, and I would add that as Christians, God's love commits us to people.
Naomi's question: Why would you want to commit to me when I'm of no use to me? You are in your prime, the world is before you, why would you want to sign up for this?
Offer all the cultural context and background for this question.
Ruth's response: "your people will be my people, and your God my God. Where you go I will go."...of all the great kings and heroic warriors of the Old Testament, I think Ruth might be the most gritty.
God is committed to us far before our usefulness to God. God commits and pursues after us with an "everlasting love."
Ex. from marriage vows...we ask couples to pledge before the covenant community that they will love their spouse even when its not useful or beneficial to them....again....not because we know this will make them happy in the long run, but because the purpose of Christian marriage is to make us holy....to reflect God's covenantal love in a world that shuns commitment.
Share the story of why the pastors chose "grit" to define the essence of ESUMC. We are a church committed to seeing the gritty love of God take hold of all the people of our parish. We see the love shared in the Trinity, the love between Father, Son, and Holy Spirit as full of grit. We see this as a congregation full of "grit."
Pastoral Challenge(s): Who have you given up on that you could recommit to? Praying for? Being with?