hello my children <3 first, i'd like to humbly apologize for my absence. it'll never happen again (i hope) but i'm here now :)) in this episode, i teamed up with tomilola and we're giving you guys a little insight on how life was as a boarding school student in nigeria. i personally hated high school but the adventures i had in there are literally engraved into my memory forever. i do hope you enjoy this episode & lmk your favorite part and if you have any fun stories as well!

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happy new month friends, how have we all been this past week? better than me i hope. if you don't know who baudelaire is, it is what tyler, the creator calls himself - tyler baudelaire. anyway, since we're practically married in my head, i thought i could take some cues from him and dish out some advice about taking control of your life and your future. i urge you to set your differences for t aside (if you're not a fan) and just listen to the episode. this is for all of us, who listen to the most violent, ground shaking, ear shattering tyler, the creator songs with earphones on full blast while keeping the straightest faces ever. i see a tyler concert in our near future.  happy independence day & ily guys <3

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hi friends! this episode has been pre-recorded and has been marinating on my laptop for over a month now but i'm finally ready for you guys to hear it. the audio is a bit scratchy and it's really irking me but it's apparently a problem with the platform to record so i can't do anything about it. i said i was going to be bringing my friends on sometimes and here we are :) there's definitely more where this came from, let me just get to school first and see my other friends. this episode is for you guys that are die hard lovers and don't let distance of your person affect your relationship with them. i love you all <3

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hi my baes! another week, another episode. very happy with this episode you guys because i finally got my mom on this one :)) big ups to my mom fr. anyway, i'm very excited for you guys to hear this episode because i'm going to asking her a bunch of stuff & have conversation on the side with her as well. side note: i started watching rick & morty and i don't think i regret my decision. sha, this episode is dedicated to all of you kids out there, who call their s/o "mommy". just remember that the Lord is watching you. 

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hi friends <3 in this episode, i'm dissecting the different sizes of baggage we all have as individuals, literally. no long talk though sha. you lot might not think this is a special episode but i think it is. it was a very spontaneous topic i thought about after scrolling on twitter for about 40 minutes, which btw, is not healthy at all. anyway as usual hope you guys love it. ily & muah <3

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hi m baes! back at it again with another episode. i think this is a very insightful topic tbh and i hope i did a good job in explaining & talking about it. anyway guys, hope you like it! this episode is for those of us that have time and brain storage for a 15 song album but find it difficult to remember to call our grandparents on their birthdays, we will be saved soon. as usual, thank you for listening and sharing my baes <3

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