Compassion can be defined as ‘a sensitivity to suffering in self and others with a commitment to try to alleviate and prevent it’ (Gilbert 2013). We can experience compassion in different ways: we can feel compassion for other people; we can experience compassion from others; and there is also the compassion we can direct towards ourselves. How do compassionate leaders behave? What does it mean to be a compassionate leader ?
Steven Hargreaves : Founder & Managing Director - The Compassionate Leadership Company , Author of Compassionate Leadership Playbook, Riders & Elephant Specialist .checked in to the cafe to share his insight & experience on "What does it mean to be a compassionate leader ?" Steven to describe compassionate leadership as an approach to leadership & philosophy that place an high level of importance on the elevation of suffering. Enabling get the work done successfully & effectively to make sure they thrive. The main purpose to create better work condition where people can do their best. Compassion leader spend more time on relationship than performance.
Steven reflects about the eight dimensions from his book which he believes important qualities, values & believes a compassionate leader should have. out of it he gives more prominence on "Self Care". If leaders dont take care of themselves, it is very unlikely to take care of his or her people. Steven states that Compassion leadership is not hug and hope approach, it is about take meaningful action.
Steven did share some great tips to develop compassionate leadership which some are .
1. Ask your self how much of time we spend in terms of relationship,
2. Could we develop curiosity about our people ?,could I take more time to notice my people & their behaviours?
3. It is about how leaders' presence & consciousness, What small steps I can take to develop this relationship ?
Compassionate leadership involves a focus on relationships through careful listening to, understanding, empathising with and supporting other people, enabling those we lead to feel valued, respected and cared for, so they can reach their potential and do their best work.
For leadership to be compassionate, it must also be inclusive. Compassion blurs the boundaries between self and other, promoting belonging, trust, understanding, mutual support and, by definition, inclusion (West 2021). This creates an inclusive, psychologically safe environment in which diversity in all forms is valued and team members can contribute creatively and enthusiastically to team performance.
You can get connected to Steven Hargreaves via his linkedin profile & log on to www.thecompassionateleadership.company to explore his work.
Get the Compassionate Leadership Play book from this link :
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Compassionate-Leaders-Playbook-compassion-ensure/dp/1739823702/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=compassionate+leaders+playbook&qid=1638959212&sr=8-1