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Your kids don’t want your stuff.
Not the china.
Not the cabinet full of “good things.”
Not even the furniture you saved for years.
And before that stings too much… stay with me.
Because this episode isn’t about loss.
It’s about freedom, relief, and making choices before they’re made for you. 🎧✨This episode started with a sentence I hear almost every week.
“But my kids might want this.”
Here’s the quiet truth.
Most kids don’t want the stuff.
They want you.
They want less stress.
They want less guilt.
They want you healthy, happy, and not tripping over boxes of things you’ve been keeping “just in case.”
In this episode, we talk about why holding onto everything feels safe.
Why it feels loving.
Why it feels responsible?
And why it slowly becomes heavy.
I share real conversations I’ve had with families.
The moment parents realize they are protecting objects, not memories.
The moment adult kids finally say, “Please don’t save this for me.”
The relief that comes when the house gets lighter.
The relief that comes when decisions are made with clarity, not pressure.
This isn’t about rushing.
It’s not about throwing things away.
It’s about choosing on your terms.
While you have energy.
While you have options.
While the move can feel calm instead of chaotic.
My philosophy is simple.
Stuff should serve your life.
Not control it.
If your home is starting to feel heavy.
If the thought of “one day” makes your chest tight.
If you’re worried about leaving a mess behind instead of a legacy.
This episode is for you.
No shame.
No pressure.
Just honest talk and a better way forward.
If this hit close to home, share it with someone who’s quietly carrying the same weight. 💛
CBC Ontario Today - https://www.cbc.ca/listen/live-radio/1-45-ontario-today/clip/16156966-july-9-2025-what-changed-downsized
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